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    me and my ex ended a while ago, at first it was on bad terms but now we are civil and can be friendly without any issues. however, since late November his ex-girlfriend has been seeing me around college, and at first she got her friend to ask me about my relationship with him, then her other friend to add my social media (this was November.) for the next few weeks, when I'd see her around college she would look away, but since the new term (January) I have been stared and glared at, and she is making a conscious effort to go to the end of the corridor where I wait for my lesson (she's at the other end) to tal to someone she knows while watching me. My ex, when asked about it before, didn't think it would be much of an issue as she 'is like that' but now it's doing my head in having someone watch me when I hardly know her. I can either go to my ex to ask to talk to her, or I can tell her myself to leave it, it's awkward as she's done nothing upfront but it's creeping me out! a friend who knows her has said she would probably get her friends involved and messaging me if I tried talking to her, but I don't know whether I'd want that or whether I'd want to get my ex involved...
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    me and my ex ended a while ago, at first it was on bad terms but now we are civil and can be friendly without any issues. however, since late November his ex-girlfriend has been seeing me around college, and at first she got her friend to ask me about my relationship with him, then her other friend to add my social media (this was November.) for the next few weeks, when I'd see her around college she would look away, but since the new term (January) I have been stared and glared at, and she is making a conscious effort to go to the end of the corridor where I wait for my lesson (she's at the other end) to tal to someone she knows while watching me. My ex, when asked about it before, didn't think it would be much of an issue as she 'is like that' but now it's doing my head in having someone watch me when I hardly know her. I can either go to my ex to ask to talk to her, or I can tell her myself to leave it, it's awkward as she's done nothing upfront but it's creeping me out! a friend who knows her has said she would probably get her friends involved and messaging me if I tried talking to her, but I don't know whether I'd want that or whether I'd want to get my ex involved...
    I would say you should speak to her and tell her to stop. If you do nothing, it’ll only carry on. Bare in mind that just because you’re confronting someone doesn’t mean you should make a scene.
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