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    Theres this girl that i kinda like who i havent seen in about a year. we used to meet but nothing came of it. Had a bit of an arguement and kinda left on bad terms. randomly, i decided to snap her and she rang me and we talked on the phone for an hour or so and it wa great. laughing, flirting and stuff. she was a bit drunk but she said i should i text her. Its been ok she can come off as dry and kina apathetic over text. were both from ireland but shes studying in spain till june and i fo to university in england. I was fully over her but now i can feel myself getting feels again but is it worth it? shes not unreal looking but great personality but think she has cold feet. what do i do, how do i relax. feel like theres not much point and i worry that she was just drunk and its me getting too into things. mt text game isnt great either i prefer to talk in person or facetime but she is busy and sometimes i feel its best to call it off. any advice.
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    Theres this girl that i kinda like who i havent seen in about a year. we used to meet but nothing came of it. Had a bit of an arguement and kinda left on bad terms. randomly, i decided to snap her and she rang me and we talked on the phone for an hour or so and it wa great. laughing, flirting and stuff. she was a bit drunk but she said i should i text her. Its been ok she can come off as dry and kina apathetic over text. were both from ireland but shes studying in spain till june and i fo to university in england. I was fully over her but now i can feel myself getting feels again but is it worth it? shes not unreal looking but great personality but think she has cold feet. what do i do, how do i relax. feel like theres not much point and i worry that she was just drunk and its me getting too into things. mt text game isnt great either i prefer to talk in person or facetime but she is busy and sometimes i feel its best to call it off. any advice.
    Chill out and stop being so dramatic. She is in Spain, so not even coming back till next year? is she at the same uni.


    Either forget about her or just be friends without being intense. take it from there next year, she may be interested and she may not but you and she have exams to do. be patient and stop wasting energy.
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    Chill out and stop being so dramatic. She is in Spain, so not even coming back till next year? is she at the same uni.


    Either forget about her or just be friends without being intense. take it from there next year, she may be interested and she may not but you and she have exams to do. be patient and stop wasting energy.
    You’re right haha. She’s coming back in the summer and no we don’t. Just have a lot of history with her so I can feel myself getting back to it. Yeah I agree. See what happens but for now I just Needa put it at the back of my mind
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    Ask her if you can Easyjet over to her place for Easter - either in Ireland or Spain. Wherever she will be then. Treat it as a holiday, staying at a mates. If something romantic develops, great. If not, just treat her as the cool friend that she is. Try to do as much sightseeing / going out / doing sports / doing stuff as you can when you visit her.
 
 
 
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