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    Right so Ive been mad confused about this for years, I've put it off for a while but its kinda coming back in my life again.

    Long story short, I definatly like ****. Ive always had boyfriends. nothing else. but at the same time, since I was young, I always used to have secret crushes on girls.

    Now as I'm older, at parties and stuff I would often end up drunkly making out with girls just as much as boys. BUT. I really do not see myself sleeping with another girl, like sure I find girls beautiful but I would never picture myself going down on a girl and enjoying it. HOWEVER I can definitely see myself falling in love with a girl, I mean damn im pretty sure I have fallen for a girl in the past. Truth is emotionally, I have never really truly liked a boy before as much as I liked a girls before. But sexually, boys all the way. I think I'm just messed up.
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    I go to a girls' school. Say no more. I relate and as long as you're comfortable with this oddity of yours then who else is to judge?
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    (Original post by Carla.Power)
    I think I'm just messed up.
    Ye
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    (Original post by lostpenny)
    So basically you're deeming OP's situation a mental illness in need of medical attention. How magnanimous.
    "i'm messed up" i never said mental illness you put that into my mouth. Professional help such as Therapy u didn't even help her about it all u did was tell a short story on how it happened to u too relating to her that's not help
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    Why is my post being reviewed lmao people are truly soft in this world
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    (Original post by YaBoiSF)
    "i'm messed up" i never said mental illness you put that into my mouth. Professional help such as Therapy u didn't even help her about it all u did was tell a short story on how it happened to u too relating to her that's not help
    I assumed that's what OP needed to hear. OP is fully aware of the option to seek professional help yet she posted here because that may be too intimidating or isn't an option for other reasons. although I maintain that if OP is genuinely worried your advice could be taken, however pointless it was in saying what is already known.
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    (Original post by lostpenny)
    I assumed that's what OP needed to hear. OP is fully aware of the option to seek professional help yet she posted here because that may be too intimidating or isn't an option for other reasons. although I maintain that if OP is genuinely worried your advice could be taken, however pointless it was in saying what is already known.
    Who da f*** posts this stuff on a site with teen and preteens
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    I appreciate that this can be confusing, but romantic attraction and sexual attraction are separate things. For most people, they are the same (as in, romantically and sexually attracted to the same gender[s]) but for some people they can be different, which is where the split attraction model (SAM) comes in. It sounds like you are biromantic heterosexual, which is perfectly fine - don't freak out and feel like you're faking it for attention. If you want to use labels, you can use the one above or go by bi or biromantic. I hope this helps
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    (Original post by YaBoiSF)
    Who da f*** posts this stuff on a site with teen and preteens
    there's teens and preteens everywhere online. TSR is actually plenty less trashy than some forums...
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    It's not messed up. It's normal to like both males and females. It is also normal to like them in different ways rather than seeing them both equally.
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    (Original post by V for Viola)
    I appreciate that this can be confusing, but romantic attraction and sexual attraction are separate things. For most people, they are the same (as in, romantically and sexually attracted to the same gender[s]) but for some people they can be different, which is where the split attraction model (SAM) comes in. It sounds like you are biromantic heterosexual, which is perfectly fine - don't freak out and feel like you're faking it for attention. If you want to use labels, you can use the one above or go by bi or biromantic. I hope this helps
    thank you I appriciate the help
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    You could be romantically and sexually attracted to guys and romantically attracted to girls.
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    No problem
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    thank you I appriciate the help
 
 
 
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