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    Alright so there is this girl and me and her have been really into eachother for a while. But she wants to be in a relationship with me and i dont see me and her being a thing. I have told her a few times a while back but i was a total a** about it and i still want to be friends. I just really dont want to be that guy that leads girls on but ik if i try to tell her she will hate me...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Alright so there is this girl and me and her have been really into eachother for a while. But she wants to be in a relationship with me and i dont see me and her being a thing. I have told her a few times a while back but i was a total a** about it and i still want to be friends. I just really dont want to be that guy that leads girls on but ik if i try to tell her she will hate me...
    Just say you don't have any interest in being with her in that way, its the best thing to do. Sometimes you have to be mean, but in the end its the best thing.
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    Damn man, just tell her
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    jsk800 looks like someone is having a very similar problem to you lol
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    jsk800 looks like someone is having a very similar problem to you lol
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    jsk800 looks like someone is having a very similar problem to you lol
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    This isn't me haha. I'll comment and you'll see it'll call me anonymous #3 or something
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    (Original post by jsk800)
    This isn't me haha. I'll comment and you'll see it'll call me anonymous #3 or something
    Ahahahah okay, got it, it’s just eery xD
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    On mobile there are no numbers but I can see what you mean
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    (Original post by getmeoffmyphone)
    On mobile there are no numbers but I can see what you mean
    I can't see it either, but you'll see that it's not me if you were on the computer
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    (Original post by jsk800)
    I can't see it either, but you'll see that it's not me if you were on the computer
    No no I believe you dw g xD
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    I blocked one anonymous and now I can't see any anonymous...
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    (Original post by jsk800)
    I can't see it either, but you'll see that it's not me if you were on the computer
    There’s an anon thread you need to see with the title Confused, have a look
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    (Original post by getmeoffmyphone)
    There’s an anon thread you need to see with the title Confused, have a look
    I can't see any anonymous threads
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    GJ noob xD
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    Aight I got you, it's a 3 step procedure type ting very intriquette. Ok hope your ready.
    1- get off your a*s
    2- Go to her with confidence
    3- tell her and talk things through
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    Be honest and say "I don't see us working out". There's no nice way to put it without leading her on.
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    ... Why do you need to tell her you're not in to her at all?

    If she's aggressively flirty, just ignore it. It'll go away.
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    Be honest and say "I don't see us working out". There's no nice way to put it without leading her on.
    This.

    Ask to meet for coffee, during the day time. Say we need to have a real talk, make sure she doesn't think it's a date.

    Tell her you were, are still are, fond of her. Say you were, and are, flattered, she likes you.

    Then tell her as frankly and as bluntly as possible, you never used her, or meant to lead her on, you were just up for the possibility it could lead somewhere. And you've come to realise that we're not a good match, and it has no chance of developing into something deeper, more intimate. And so it's better to end things now before she gets to invested.

    Make it clear you have thought long and hard about this decision, and nothing she can do, or say, will change your mind. And if that means the two of you can no longer stay friends, or even casual acquaintances, then that's down to her. If needs be you'll avoid her and never speak to her again.

    In other words, make it crystal clear, when you say the relationship (as it was) is over, it means it is over!

    The only time breakups are easy is when both partners come to realise at the same time it just isn't working or going anywhere, and part amicably.


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    Then depending on your, (and from personal experience) more importantly her, personality and sense of humour, drop subtle hints of the possibility of a farewell goodbye shag for old times sake
 
 
 
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