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    I actually have started to genuinely hate my parents. I turned 18 and now they want to force a marriage on me and I don’t know how many times I’ve screamed and cried in front of my mother. I think she understands my opposition but I’m actually too scared to talk to my dad and he’s the one who’s forcing the move to Pakistan for two years and he thinks me + my siblings who are all around 18-20 are a disappointment living here. All of us are excelling in school and university, he’s just being a douche because I’m saying no to a marriage and my brother has been caught smoking here and there. My mother has also been emotionally abusing me so like I don’t care for her either. I’m definitely not moving to a shitfest of a country especially when I’m about to enter University. Sorry this is so long but wtf do I do? Call the police on their stupid asses, try to move out with my siblings, how do I get out of this situation?
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    all of the above. Move out with your siblings, get part time jobs, pay the rent together, and report your parents so they cant kidnap you
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    If you're being forced into a marriage you can go to the police, they can help!
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    I actually have started to genuinely hate my parents. I turned 18 and now they want to force a marriage on me and I don’t know how many times I’ve screamed and cried in front of my mother. I think she understands my opposition but I’m actually too scared to talk to my dad and he’s the one who’s forcing the move to Pakistan for two years and he thinks me + my siblings who are all around 18-20 are a disappointment living here. All of us are excelling in school and university, he’s just being a douche because I’m saying no to a marriage and my brother has been caught smoking here and there. My mother has also been emotionally abusing me so like I don’t care for her either. I’m definitely not moving to a shitfest of a country especially when I’m about to enter University. Sorry this is so long but wtf do I do? Call the police on their stupid asses, try to move out with my siblings, how do I get out of this situation?
    forced marriage is against islam, there are many charities/helplines that can help u when u r being forced into marriage.
    Ur way too young, too young. U deserve a better life!
    any questions im happy to help
    r u able to notify other family members of the situation? get their help?
 
 
 
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