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    Okay so lately me and my boyfriend been unhappy and not really fulfilling eachothers needs. I seen him yesterday and decided we would start a fresh and try to be happy. I thought things were going really well until we had a disagreement over what to watch on the tv. To me, this isnt a big deal. However, to him, it turned into a massive argument and he said 'we are just never going to get along are we', then he decided to go asleep. I left because is there anything worse than being next to someone who is asleep when you are angry.
    Now i left about 11pm and was getting the bus, still he hasnt messaged to see if I got home safe.
    What shall I do? Message him? Does it sound like we are doomed and should break up? I love him so it's so hard!
    But if I cant simply call him selfish for putting something he knows I dont like on the Tv without causing a massive row then ??
    Baring in mind we see eachother 1-2 times a week and have been together over a year.
    HELP!!
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    Okay so lately me and my boyfriend been unhappy and not really fulfilling eachothers needs. I seen him yesterday and decided we would start a fresh and try to be happy. I thought things were going really well until we had a disagreement over what to watch on the tv. To me, this isnt a big deal. However, to him, it turned into a massive argument and he said 'we are just never going to get along are we', then he decided to go asleep. I left because is there anything worse than being next to someone who is asleep when you are angry.
    Now i left about 11pm and was getting the bus, still he hasnt messaged to see if I got home safe.
    What shall I do? Message him? Does it sound like we are doomed and should break up? I love him so it's so hard!
    But if I cant simply call him selfish for putting something he knows I dont like on the Tv without causing a massive row then ??
    Baring in mind we see eachother 1-2 times a week and have been together over a year.
    HELP!!
    Arguing is rarely good, especially over something petty.

    Sounds like your bf cares less and wont make the effort to compromise.

    Either talk it through with him and see if resolving it is more important than wining an argument or take a break from each other for 3-12 weeks. If you are in exam time, then they should be your priority.

    Relationships usually end so dont waste time chasing something that has run its course. Waste of time and energy.
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    of course he wont message to see if you got home safe, its 11pm and you said he was asleep
 
 
 
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