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    Unfortunately my grandma passed away early this morning. I was very close to her and loved her very much but I didn't cry at all when my parents told me this morning.

    I feel a bit uncomfortable and guilty that I haven't displayed the emotions my siblings (both younger and older) have displayed by not crying. I was just absolutely shocked and in denial when i was told this morning.

    has anyone felt the same?
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    Yes - when I lost my gran in November, I didn't cry. I certainly was sad though, and it did make me less focused on school work that week.
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    It isn't uncommon. We all process grief differently, and you may find that after some time has passed and the shock has subsided you do eventually have a good cry. You might not. There is no right or wrong way to act so don't be concerned that something is inherently wrong with you.
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    It probably hasnt hit you yet
    And dont worry if you dont cry, people have different ways of coping with loss
    Sorry to hear about your nan x
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    Not an issue at all, as the people said above we all process grief differently and have different reactions to it. I hope you feel better soon, and think of your grandma with happiness :heart::suith:
 
 
 
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