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    I've had enough.

    Firstly, I'm not attractive at all. I'm 17 and skinny - I don't have any eating disorders, I eat as much as I feel like and I don't feel a problem; girls like boys with muscles, a bit of 'meat' but that's just not me. I have huge frog-like eyes which aren't attractive. I have to wear glasses.. my hair is just plain brown, swept across like a nerd because I have no idea of what to do with it. This is embarrassing, but I also have just one testicle - no girl will like this I guess.

    I'm also extremely boring. I grew up with selective mutism, slowly overcoming it, but I'm awkward socially, I prefer to be alone and I often find I don't have ANY contributions to a conversation. I'm just a bystander.

    Apart from football (soccer), my interests involve psychology and crime - girls will think I'm weird. I show traits of psychopathy and have had a tough time mentally.
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    Confidence is key
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    If you’re not happy with your appearance just hit the gym and go get a haircut.

    It doesn’t matter what others think of you, if you are happy with yourself and your personality then that’s all that matters. If you aren’t, then make an effort to change.
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    I should be studying but I always want to help people like you for some reason, idk why. Seriously there's an epidemic of guys on this website with no confidence/masculinity. I wonder whats causing it... Everyday a new thread pops up 'Girls will never love me' 'Am I tall enough' 'I wish I was a transgender woman' 'I have social anxiety'

    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I've had enough.

    Firstly, I'm not attractive at all.
    You aren't unattractive. You lack any self-esteem and confidence.


    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm 17 and skinny - I don't have any eating disorders, I eat as much as I feel like and I don't feel a problem; girls like boys with muscles, a bit of 'meat' but that's just not me.
    Ok. Skinniness is very easy to fix. I recommend you get a gym membership (ideally at one which isn't overcrowded). Don't go to your uni gym they have too many people and you'll be waiting 10 minutes for a bench at peak times.

    For a routine, I'd recommend: https://www.reddit.com/r/Fitness/com...l_program_for/

    For diet, I'd recommend a variation of this:

    https://shockingfit.com/zyzz-workout...-u-mirin-brah/ (Don't do his workout routine, just follow his diet). You can buy everything you need at your local Tesco superstore. Forget about the kangaroo meat you're not an aussy.


    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I have huge frog-like eyes which aren't attractive. I have to wear glasses.. my hair is just plain brown, swept across like a nerd because I have no idea of what to do with it.
    Who cares about big eyes, really... Come on my man. If you go to the gym and make gains you can become a nerd-jock. Good at multivariable calculus, but also benches 3 plates. Has 18 inch arms but wears big black glasses. Srsly you'll confuse the s-h-i-t out of everyone.

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    This is embarrassing, but I also have just one testicle - no girl will like this I guess.
    My dutch friend only has one testicle aswell. I don't remember why he had to get it removed but I think he had a major infection when he was young. I suspect you also have hypogonadism as a result of only having one testicle? If so, go to your GP and ask for blood test. If you haven't got high testosterone get on TRT and you'll be able to build muscle. Also it will get rid of social anxiety and all of your confidence problems.


    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm also extremely boring. I grew up with selective mutism, slowly overcoming it, but I'm awkward socially, I prefer to be alone and I often find I don't have ANY contributions to a conversation. I'm just a bystander.
    I suspect this comes from a lack of energy and fatigue. If you were energetic I doubt you'd be socially awkward and introverted. Again, speak to your GP.


    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Apart from football (soccer), my interests involve psychology and crime - girls will think I'm weird. I show traits of psychopathy and have had a tough time mentally.
    Ugh, why weird? Every girl loves psychology. Go to some psychology lectures and you'll see the class is 80% girls.

    Hope I helped. Feel free to drop me a PM anytime, I'm always here if you need someone to talk to.
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    I should be studying but I always want to help people like you for some reason, idk why. Seriously there's an epidemic of guys on this website with no confidence/masculinity. I wonder whats causing it... Everyday a new thread pops up 'Girls will never love me' 'Am I tall enough' 'I wish I was a transgender woman' 'I have social anxiety'



    You aren't unattractive. You lack any self-esteem and confidence.



    Ok. Skinniness is very easy to fix. I recommend you get a gym membership (ideally at one which isn't overcrowded). Don't go to your uni gym they have too many people and you'll be waiting 10 minutes for a bench at peak times.

    For a routine, I'd recommend: https://www.reddit.com/r/Fitness/com...l_program_for/

    For diet, I'd recommend a variation of this:

    https://shockingfit.com/zyzz-workout...-u-mirin-brah/ (Don't do his workout routine, just follow his diet). You can buy everything you need at your local Tesco superstore. Forget about the kangaroo meat you're not an aussy.



    Who cares about big eyes, really... Come on my man. If you go to the gym and make gains you can become a nerd-jock. Good at multivariable calculus, but also benches 3 plates. Has 18 inch arms but wears big black glasses. Srsly you'll confuse the s-h-i-t out of everyone.



    My dutch friend only has one testicle aswell. I don't remember why he had to get it removed but I think he had a major infection when he was young. I suspect you also have hypogonadism as a result of only having one testicle? If so, go to your GP and ask for blood test. If you haven't got high testosterone get on TRT and you'll be able to build muscle. Also it will get rid of social anxiety and all of your confidence problems.



    I suspect this comes from a lack of energy and fatigue. If you were energetic I doubt you'd be socially awkward and introverted. Again, speak to your GP.



    Ugh, why weird? Every girl loves psychology. Go to some psychology lectures and you'll see the class is 80% girls.

    Hope I helped. Feel free to drop me a PM anytime, I'm always here if you need someone to talk to.
    Thanks, this helps a lot. Maybe I should work out more but I'm not obsessed with having a great body
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    Thanks, this helps a lot. Maybe I should work out more but I'm not obsessed with having a great body
    The key to having confidence and an almost narcissistic level of self-esteem/self-love is having a great body. Working out changes your mindset, not just your body.
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    Love yourself first and bring out that confidence. Someone is bound to notice a positive personality
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