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    Hello,
    So a bit of back story. I remember this girl from when I was at such form (I left last summer). She was quite attractive and now I followed her on Instagram. So as you can tell I’m 18, almost 19 and she is in year 11 so almost 16. I haven’t spoken to her yet but I’m not sure what to do. Could it work? I know we couldn’t do anything until she turned 16 but is it wrong for someone of aged 19 to date a 16 year old?
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    I am 19 and I would not look for anyone below AS
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    it could work but i don't see why you'd bother if you don't know or speak to each other and if she's only 'quite attractive'. look for someone who has started their period
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    You could always try, if she doesn't take the bait, plenty of other fishes in the sea (especially since you just find her "quite attractive").
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    You could always try, if she doesn't take the bait, plenty of other fishes in the sea (especially since you just find her "quite attractive").
    I meant more than quite, just the way I speak (or type). Yeah I suppose it’s worth it but I worry as she’s 15 right now. Should I wait till she’s 16 to speak to her?
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    I meant more than quite, just the way I speak (or type). Yeah I suppose it’s worth it but I worry as she’s 15 right now. Should I wait till she’s 16 to speak to her?
    It is amazing how many people are in this situation; maybe I'm just looking out for it because I'm in a similar situation. I met her 2 years ago and we just made friends casually and she'd come in and speak to me at work throughout the week.

    The advice I got was to wait until she was 16 (which I was going to do anyway). I'm not sure if it will work out or not because I've never been in this situation before. So I don't know if it will work out for you but all I know is, the heart loves blindly - you can't help that.
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    It is amazing how many people are in this situation; maybe I'm just looking out for it because I'm in a similar situation. I met her 2 years ago and we just made friends casually and she'd come in and speak to me at work throughout the week.

    The advice I got was to wait until she was 16 (which I was going to do anyway). I'm not sure if it will work out or not because I've never been in this situation before. So I don't know if it will work out for you but all I know is, the heart loves blindly - you can't help that.
    Must be quite a wait for you if you met two years ago 😬 but best of luck man, it is best to wait till they’re 16 though because of the laws.
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    Must be quite a wait for you if you met two years ago 😬 but best of luck man, it is best to wait till they’re 16 though because of the laws.
    No I wasn't looking for anything back then, I was in a different relationship at the time so I just enjoyed talking to her occasionally and seeing what she was doing in her life on social media! It's only now that we have started to get a lot closer, so things are taking a turn in that direction.

    Of course I will be waiting! good luck to you
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Hello,
    So a bit of back story. I remember this girl from when I was at such form (I left last summer). She was quite attractive and now I followed her on Instagram. So as you can tell I’m 18, almost 19 and she is in year 11 so almost 16. I haven’t spoken to her yet but I’m not sure what to do. Could it work? I know we couldn’t do anything until she turned 16 but is it wrong for someone of aged 19 to date a 16 year old?
    It's "could she and I work?", you dumb ****.
 
 
 
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