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Boys are confusing and I suck at feelings watch

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    Really tho, why are feelings so weird and awkward.

    I realised recently that I have an awful habit of getting a bit flirty with guys (mutual) but as soon as things tend to get more serious I pull away like f**k. Sometimes it's because it's getting too real or sometimes because I don't know if it's genuine. Even if afterwards I regret it and begin to get "feels". Of course by this point we're not speaking anymore and I'm left wondering what would've happened if I didn't steer away from any serious talk or if anything was actually going to happen at all.

    oh and romance and relationship things kinda freak me out too??? honestly what a mess. Anyone relate?
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    OMGG YESSSS !!!!!!!!!! i thought i was the only one. the thing is i dont even try to be flirty im just nice but it comes off that way to some guys and as soon as i find out or see signs of them 'liking' me even if they sometimes dont i completely shut down and shut them out and push them away to the point where im rude and ignore them until we just stop talking to eachother.... even tho i never liked them and i dont get feelings back i still regret ruining that friendship... which is pretty much why i only have girl friends :'( but im just SO glad its not just me that has this problem. phew. i really dont know why i do it either to be honest...
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    (Original post by Lren10)
    Really tho, why are feelings so weird and awkward.

    I realised recently that I have an awful habit of getting a bit flirty with guys (mutual) but as soon as things tend to get more serious I pull away like f**k. Sometimes it's because it's getting too real or sometimes because I don't know if it's genuine. Even if afterwards I regret it and begin to get "feels". Of course by this point we're not speaking anymore and I'm left wondering what would've happened if I didn't steer away from any serious talk or if anything was actually going to happen at all.

    oh and romance and relationship things kinda freak me out too??? honestly what a mess. Anyone relate?
    How do you think Cambridge Mathmos feel?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    OMGG YESSSS !!!!!!!!!! i thought i was the only one. the thing is i dont even try to be flirty im just nice but it comes off that way to some guys and as soon as i find out or see signs of them 'liking' me even if they sometimes dont i completely shut down and shut them out and push them away to the point where im rude and ignore them until we just stop talking to eachother.... even tho i never liked them and i dont get feelings back i still regret ruining that friendship... which is pretty much why i only have girl friends :'( but im just SO glad its not just me that has this problem. phew. i really dont know why i do it either to be honest...
    oh no you're definitely not the only one!! I get that too sometimes, when I'm just trying to be nice and someone else catches feels and I'm just like sorry but I cannot deal with that. I always feel bad for not liking them back so I just end up ignoring them but feelings just stress me out and I can't deal! Same here, I don't really have many guy friends! Tho some fears may stem from my last "relationship" (which wasn't really one) I thought I liked him but I felt so awkward and anxious being with him. man feelings suck!
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    How do you think Cambridge Mathmos feel?
    please explain lmaoo
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    (Original post by Lren10)
    please explain lmaoo
    It was a social inability joke at their expense
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    (Original post by Kyber Ninja)
    It was a social inability joke at their expense
    ahh I got you now 😂
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