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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    It is quite important and I’d like to lose it with the right person, but finding the “right” person is pretty unlikely and waiting because “the time will come” I doubt will work - I mean how does the “right” person come about in your life, life isn’t a magical fairytale, guys have to find women and women reject everyone who’s not a dominant confident alpha male. It’s so hard.

    There’s so much pressure around this age to lose it as well
    Hah pressure trust me there isn’t I’ve heard the people who talk about losing it and either they where disgusting individuals laughing like Neanderthals or they where tbh describing something that sounded sad and a rather bad way to lose it honestly your virginity ain’t something that matters your experience is a little but if you find someone who you like and likes you they won’t be arsed and might even like it

    Hmm myself I’m a virgin yeah you can laugh I’m a romantic at heart I’ve had more offers from glorious whomen and even a bit worryingly men than most could boast about I’m just not that arsed either way I like the idea but I want something more and I don’t want to get stuck with a head case what is tbh inevitable as of this moment I’m 18 and I’m hoping to peruse my dreams so whomen are the least of my worries or interests

    If you’re really so bothered about it you could save up and hire an escort their sort of a classy prostitute you meet them show em a good time then you go to you designated spot and have the best sex you could ask for you have to pay of course but that’s for them to leave as they say

    It’s a far classier and more memorable way than what most do afterall most escorts are nice whomen with a good variety of personalities and tbh their better in bed than most whomen I’m not saying this is the answer but I really wouldn’t recommend wasting your life perusing something as silly as losing your virginity no that’s a empty and stupid persuit with no reward

    Persueing a life of pleasure is a more worthwhile life style but your probably not well off enough to have such a ludicrous life
    So enrichment I would recommend as it will be far more worthwhile and rewarding in the short and long run
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    Hah pressure trust me there isn’t I’ve heard the people who talk about losing it and either they where disgusting individuals laughing like Neanderthals or they where tbh describing something that sounded sad and a rather bad way to lose it honestly your virginity ain’t something that matters your experience is a little but if you find someone who you like and likes you they won’t be arsed and might even like it

    Hmm myself I’m a virgin yeah you can laugh I’m a romantic at heart I’ve had more offers from glorious whomen and even a bit worryingly men than most could boast about I’m just not that arsed either way I like the idea but I want something more and I don’t want to get stuck with a head case what is tbh inevitable as of this moment I’m 18 and I’m hoping to persue my dreams so whomen are the least of my worries or interests

    If you’re really so bothered about it you could save up and hire an escort their sort of a classy prostitute you meet them show em a good time then you go to you designated spot and have the best sex you could ask for you have to pay of course but that’s for them to leave as they say

    It’s a far classier and more memorable way than what most do afterall most escorts are nice whomen with a good variety of personalities and tbh their better in bed than most whomen I’m not saying this is the answer but I really wouldn’t recommend wasting your life perusing something as silly as losing your virginity no that’s a empty and stupid persuit with no reward

    Persueing a life of pleasure is a more worthwhile life style but your probably not well off enough to have such a ludicrous life
    So enrichment I would recommend as it will be far more worthwhile and rewarding in the short and long run
    Also peer pressure is something to be ignored that’s something you learn in primary school 😋
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    (Original post by Hirsty97)
    Be more assertive
    True but rather basic advice

    Hmm mr 18 year old in question erm where are you trying to pick up girls if at uni bad place they have lives and purpose alongside studies their not really the type you want to try and meet and f**k

    try bars and clubs dance a little if you can’t dance learn how too I cannot count how many horny lasses I’ve met at clubs and most will approach you so long as you dress up and dance by dress up not fashion fashion is dull senseless following of a group dress smart and wear what you like do your hair so it’s not a mess wear after shave preferably good after shave because dancing makes you sweat

    Don’t be a **** approaching every girl there if you see a girl who you like and are confident compliment them on something that you like don’t come onto them that’s what every thick confident lad does it’s not attractive

    Have a beer or maybe just something fizzy up to you then dance to whatever music you feel like dancing too don’t get drunk again that goes under don’t be a **** no one likes a drunk 😵 and just be pleasant and fun it ain’t hard I myself at first couldn’t dance yet I still moved perfectly to rave and dance music

    It is a attractive trait but when I dance don’t be a poser focussing on how you look that’s again a common mistake afterall there are plenty of cokes up poser ***** who focus on their image at bars and clubs but I’m nearly allways the center of attention everyone and I’m not being egotistical literally everyone love me at the clubs I go because I’m lively nice and friendly
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    It’s also rather fun to dance though not everyone will agree if you find your favourite song playing you must sometimes feel like moving along to it or singing alcohol helps release the true self but with most their true self is rather ugly and violent mine isn’t luckily so I’d recommend if you’re a bad drunk just drinking something fizzy and non alcoholic but after a while you probably will feel like it it just sort of happens in a place where everyone is moving you get a tribal or group mentality to move
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    (Original post by Lejax)
    True but rather basic advice

    Hmm mr 18 year old in question erm where are you trying to pick up girls if at uni bad place they have lives and purpose alongside studies their not really the type you want to try and meet and f**k

    try bars and clubs dance a little if you can’t dance learn how too I cannot count how many horny lasses I’ve met at clubs and most will approach you so long as you dress up and dance by dress up not fashion fashion is dull senseless following of a group dress smart and wear what you like do your hair so it’s not a mess wear after shave preferably good after shave because dancing makes you sweat

    Don’t be a **** approaching every girl there if you see a girl who you like and are confident compliment them on something that you like don’t come onto them that’s what every thick confident lad does it’s not attractive

    Have a beer or maybe just something fizzy up to you then dance to whatever music you feel like dancing too don’t get drunk again that goes under don’t be a **** no one likes a drunk 😵 and just be pleasant and fun it ain’t hard I myself at first couldn’t dance yet I still moved perfectly to rave and dance music

    It is a attractive trait but when I dance don’t be a poser focussing on how you look that’s again a common mistake afterall there are plenty of cokes up poser ***** who focus on their image at bars and clubs but I’m nearly allways the center of attention everyone and I’m not being egotistical literally everyone love me at the clubs I go because I’m lively nice and friendly
    What I normally do is tan before, get a hair cut, put on a Versace shirt with two top buttons undone, wear Versace aftershave, and Versace chain and I'm ready to go.

    Seems to work on girls in the 17-21 cohort.
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    Go to the gym get buff and the [email protected] will start flocking, trust me.
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    (Original post by Hirsty97)
    What I normally do is tan before, get a hair cut, put on a Versace shirt with two top buttons undone, wear Versace aftershave, and Versace chain and I'm ready to go.

    Seems to work on girls in the 17-21 cohort.
    Seems verry Versace 😂
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    (Original post by shohaib712)
    Go to the gym get buff and the [email protected] will start flocking, trust me.
    Hmm depends on your personality if you’re buff and rude [email protected] as you said will be lining up left right and centre hell you can have em I’ll stick to enjoying the classy lasses and ladies 😎

    If not refrain from using the word [email protected] and yes get in shape but don’t be a buff gay polo shirt wearing body builder addicted to who knows what and being overall a bad tempered buff child with stunted growth trust me that ain’t the path to go down it ain’t a pretty picture chizz on notes and sharing blood related diseases having no stamina weak legs inflated arms and an addiction to muscle building drugs till you get too much and grow tits lactate and behave like a [email protected] up whomen trust me it ain’t a pretty picture

    😂😂😂
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I’m really worried I’ll end up a virgin all my life. I’m 18 and I think that girls just don’t like me for some reason. I’m not the best looking but I’m a friendly guy and I’ve gone out to bars and clubbing a few times now and every time I talk to girls they just reject me and end up going for other guys who aren’t better looking than me! I’m really worried and when I start uni this year I worry that all the guys will get girls so easy like on freshers and I won’t. What do I need to do to improve my chances? Thank you so much for your help!
    Don't bother with the club, you're wasting your time with that approach. No one cares what your personality is like in a one night stand situation lol
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    I hadn't lost my virginity by 18 and I'm now 22 and still haven't lost it so yeah you're ****ed mate, and not literally.
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    BELIEVE in your sauce bro.
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    (Original post by Lejax)

    Hmm myself I’m a virgin yeah..

    If you’re really so bothered about it you could save up and hire an escort their sort of a classy prostitute you meet them show em a good time then you go to you designated spot and have the best sex you could ask for you have to pay of course but that’s for them to leave as they say

    It’s a far classier and more memorable way than what most do afterall most escorts are nice whomen with a good variety of personalities and tbh their better in bed than most whomen I’m not saying this is the answer but I really wouldn’t recommend wasting your life perusing something as silly as losing your virginity no that’s a empty and stupid persuit with no reward
    Your lack of experience is showing.
    Going with an escort / prostitute is one solution for the OP.

    A bubble foam bath with everything or a double bubble foam bath with everything in a Bangkok parlour is a deeply physically pleasurable experience. But it is not "the best sex you coukl ask for".

    The best sex you could ask for would include a long session or several sessions over a week-end. It would include the woman doing to you what the prostitute would do to you in Bangkok, plus one or two other things depending on your taste. Plus it would include genuine passion, love, enthusiasm, desire from the woman. Not fake pretend, paid for desire. Plus it would include giving the woman multiple orgasms including a very strong orgasm.

    Sex with escorts, especially the ones in the UK, including the high class ones is of the nature that their objective is to make you orgasm for the least time and effort on their part. If they do that they feel as if they've "won". It can be deeply physically pleasurable for the man, but don't expect to give them multiple orgasms and don't expect the emotional connection that you get with a girlfriend.


    Overall your comments on high class escorts are stunningly naive. It's as if you've learnt all you know about prostitutes by watching Pretty Woman. Get some real world experience and report back here if your findings differ to mine.
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    (Original post by Dunnig Kruger)
    Your lack of experience is showing.
    Going with an escort / prostitute is one solution for the OP.

    A bubble foam bath with everything or a double bubble foam bath with everything in a Bangkok parlour is a deeply pleasurable experience. But it is not "the best sex you coukl ask for".

    The best sex you could ask for would include a long session or several sessions over a week-end. It would include the woman doing to you what the prostitute would do to you in Bangkok, plus one or two other things depending on your taste. Plus it would include genuine passion, love, enthusiasm, desire from the woman. Not fake pretend, paid for desire. Plus it would include giving the woman multiple orgasms including a very strong orgasm.

    Sex with escorts, especially the ones in the UK, including the high class ones is of the nature that their objective is to make you orgasm for the least time and effort on their part. If they do that they feel as if they've "won". It can be deeply physically pleasurable for the man, but don't expect to give them multiple orgasms and don't expect the emotional connection that you get with a girlfriend.


    Overall your comments on high class escorts are stunningly naive. It's as if you've learnt all you know about prostitutes by watching Pretty Woman. Get some real world experience and report back here if your findings differ to mine.
    Hmm your talking of passionate love making as I mentioned earlier that’s not something you just pick up out of nowhere yes it’d be great for uni boy to do that but clearly he’s adamant to do it soon I earlier on in this forum discussed the whole waiting ****

    My suggestion was based on the fact that I do know an escort who I have spoken with it’s cleaner and safer than getting a prostitute often you go for a meal or to a bar to simulate a date then if it goes well you **** and yes I admit it’s not the best **** in the world that does come with love but uni boy ain’t gonna just suddenly find love right now is he Krueger in the other hand escorts are fairly easy to find

    I know this because I have spoke with one and I haven’t watched what was it pretty whomen but I know someone who’s paid to **** and has experience is better than any old whore in the local pub

    Also you wouldn’t need to go as far as bang **** to get one I personally wouldn’t think of going to lady boy country

    Krueger what ever floats your boat on the matter of banging cocks in bang **** but yes I haven’t used prostitutes myself as I mentioned earlier I’m not that desperate nor interested in pointless sex I like the idea of romance

    The escorts ive met deal with politicians so it’s fair to say my views aren’t that naive rather you seen to make many assumptions yet did you not know assumed for makes an ass out of u and me I didn’t say it would be emotional nor did I say it’s the same as having a gf but it most certainly is a good ****

    There are 3 things you are right

    1I haven’t got experience and tbh I don’t care to waste my time ****ing random birds for so said experience
    2it isn’t the best **** ever but it is probably the best he can get in the space of a day or two the best in my opinion would be Jennifer Anniston when she where younger alongside shakira so on so forth
    3 it would be sex without love but your not gonna find true love and **** them within a day

    Honestly Krueger you’re not right on most of this though as I’m not so naive as you think I was aware of these two in also aware that most people lose their virginity in rather bleak or un memorable ways a night out at the pub date rape so on honestly my suggestion doesn’t seem so bad compared to the alternative read my posts before you blindly walk-in and comment as this is a serious Donnie moment here I had before all this suggested to Persue aspirations and a future be confident so on so forth this was my last point if he is seriously that adamant that he must lose his v hire a escort honestly make a mountain out of a molehill

    At least is suppose I can say this line

    I was standing next to mountain chop it down with the edge of my hand

    Hah made it all worthwhile
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    (Original post by Lejax)
    Hmm your talking of passionate love making as I mentioned earlier that’s not something you just pick up out of nowhere yes it’d be great for uni boy to do that but clearly he’s adamant to do it soon I earlier on in this forum discussed the whole waiting ****

    My suggestion was based on the fact that I do know an escort who I have spoken with it’s cleaner and safer than getting a prostitute often you go for a meal or to a bar to simulate a date then if it goes well you **** and yes I admit it’s not the best **** in the world that does come with love but uni boy ain’t gonna just suddenly find love right now is he Krueger in the other hand escorts are fairly easy to find...
    The first line of the opening post says: "I’m really worried I’ll end up a virgin all my life."

    That's not the voice of someone "adamant to do it soon". It's the voice of someone looking at the long term.

    How do you know the OP won't suddenly find love? It happens all the time. Especially at Universities. I find it a shockingly negative mindset to say that " uni boy ain’t gonna just suddenly find love right now". Let's be positive. There is no reason whatsoever why the OP can't find someone that goes on to become his girlfriend this week-end. And his chances of this happening will be increased if he is enthusiastic, positive, whilst at the same time forgetting about his lack of success so far.


    Story time:

    I was a virgin going into my 2nd term / semester at Uni. I was stressed by my lack of success. One night after another aslcohol fueled unsuccessful evening in the Students Union I walked up a big hill above the Uni. It was freezing and snowy. Similar to the weather we have now. I sat and looked at the stars for a few minutes and it reminded me how small my time and place and significance is in the Universe. Really tiny microscopically small. That night I changed. I stopped giving a tupenny bit about being a virgin. About not having a girlfriend. About making the right impression when meeting people.

    Within a month, with my new "can't give a tuppeny bit about the negative things in my life" inner philosophy I'd lost my virginity to a sweet Business Studies student.
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    Agree with UWS.

    Just live your life, have fun, do things that make you happy and she will come.

    You could do online dating, speed dating, joining clubs out of interest, through education, through your network and approaching women.

    Good luck
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    Thanks to everyone who’s commented on giving me advice, it’s all appreciated. I’ll reiterate that I’m not desperate to lose it literally right now but it’s a worry that I don’t want to have going into my 20s and ideally don’t want to be a virigin by the time I finish university and when I start getting jobs as chances of relationships/casual things etc will go downhill.

    So essentially it’s best just carry on as normal, do the things I enjoy doing, be content with myself and my interests and hopefully someone will come along the way with common ground (even though it does sound a bit idealistic and I’m sure this doesn’t happen to everyone)? Are dating apps/sites like tinder recommended by you guys for meeting up/dating (or even if it’s just ending up with female friends)? Is it quite easy to find matches on these sites?
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    Book two weeks in Thailand, **** everything in sight for two weeks and then you will be fine for at least another year.
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    Don't worry, im 18 and a virgin too and im kinda desperate too but you cant let it control you otherwise you'll just spiral out of control. The best things to do are to workout (cause most girls like someone who is tall, dark and handsome and fit, not all tho). Have a think about your dress sense, if you've never really thought about what you wear until now then maybe that's why cause girls like someone who is stylish, you don't have to wear designer brands, it might help but you don't need to. Finally just work on your social skills. dont worry about uni, you will meet all types of people from all over the country and you probably wonk know anyone from college or sixth form there so its a fresh start.
 
 
 
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