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    So recently i've been going out with this girl for nearly a month now, she is possibly the most kindest, loyal person there is for me and i honestly think myself of a **** for thinking this but the looks kind of get me and honestly i don't want that i want to love her like she does with me. Should i stick with her and see how it goes, wait for her to dump me or just dump her?
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    Wait so you have a nice girl by your side and now you want to dump her? Thats out of order man
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    move on, likely your young she will get over you, maybe quicker then you think, but if you end up liking or meeting another girl because of your lack of physical attraction and wandering eye... you could break her heart.
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    (Original post by TheGirlFelonXxXx)
    Wait so you have a nice girl by your side and now you want to dump her? Thats out of order man
    i completely understand your point but when you have a girlfriend everyones like who cares about looks but honestly to most people looks do matter somewhat. do i want to dump her? not necessarily
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    You can't help who you're attracted to, and if you're not really feeling it then you should break it off and not lead her on. Perhaps don't tell her it's because of the way she looks though, be a little more vague about it so she isn't self conscious
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    Follow your heart
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    Don’t hurt her. There are plenty of people who don’t have that opportunity.
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    (Original post by flabi)
    You can't help who you're attracted to, and if you're not really feeling it then you should break it off and not lead her on. Perhaps don't tell her it's because of the way she looks though, be a little more vague about it so she isn't self conscious
    yeh i see where you're coming from i am feeling it i mean tbf though i did ask her out under the influence but that aint the point is there anyway to like move past the looks?
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    (Original post by TheAlchemistress)
    Don’t hurt her. There are plenty of people who don’t have that opportunity.
    you're right i really shouldn't.
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    (Original post by Realitysreflexx)
    move on, likely your young she will get over you, maybe quicker then you think, but if you end up liking or meeting another girl because of your lack of physical attraction and wandering eye... you could break her heart.
    i guess i mean before her i had a huge crush on someone else and i still sort of like her after she rejected me (i know it's stupid) and she asks me out and i say yes.
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    (Original post by Luca Km)
    you're right i really shouldn't.
    Just think about her. You probably make her smile like no one else does.
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    (Original post by TheAlchemistress)
    Just think about her. You probably make her smile like no one else does.
    i have a feeling OP is about 15 lol.
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    (Original post by Luca Km)
    i completely understand your point but when you have a girlfriend everyones like who cares about looks but honestly to most people looks do matter somewhat. do i want to dump her? not necessarily
    But if she is kind and loyal, what else do you need from a person? Looks aside, those traits in someone is the best thing ever and its hard to find someone like that
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    (Original post by Realitysreflexx)
    i have a feeling OP is about 15 lol.
    its student forums isn't it...
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    (Original post by TheGirlFelonXxXx)
    But if she is kind and loyal, what else do you need from a person? Looks aside, those traits in someone is the best thing ever and its hard to find someone like that
    you know what you're right ill see where it goes for now.
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    (Original post by TheAlchemistress)
    Just think about her. You probably make her smile like no one else does.
    yeh i'll try
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    (Original post by Luca Km)
    its student forums isn't it...
    which is why you making her smile more then anyone else is a bit overkill.

    if you dont like her that way its fine... but dont ignore it then hurt someone later, get a clean break.
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    (Original post by Luca Km)
    yeh i see where you're coming from i am feeling it i mean tbf though i did ask her out under the influence but that aint the point is there anyway to like move past the looks?
    I was in the same situation as you - guy with a good personality and we got along but I wasn't really attracted to him. Therefore I ended up seeing him more as a friend and we broke up. I don't want to sound shallow and I'm certainly not a 10/10 but if you're not attracted to her you can't change that, and you should probably break it up now because if you put it off it'll just be worse for both of you
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    (Original post by Realitysreflexx)
    i have a feeling OP is about 15 lol.
    I don’t know.
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    (Original post by flabi)
    I was in the same situation as you - guy with a good personality and we got along but I wasn't really attracted to him. Therefore I ended up seeing him more as a friend and we broke up. I don't want to sound shallow and I'm certainly not a 10/10 but if you're not attracted to her you can't change that, and you should probably break it up now because if you put it off it'll just be worse for both of you
    how'd you end it?
 
 
 
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