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    Everytime I start speaking to a guy, it always ends up him talking about my body and then sex. I’m very curvy, I have a big bum and big boobs. I usually cover up but men still comment on my body. One time I was on a date with a guy and he said I look like the type to **** but not date. Somehow men think I’m slutty because of how my body looks. Why can’t I find a nice guy who sees more than just my looks?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Everytime I start speaking to a guy, it always ends up him talking about my body and then sex. I’m very curvy, I have a big bum and big boobs. I usually cover up but men still comment on my body. One time I was on a date with a guy and he said I look like the type to **** but not date. Somehow men think I’m slutty because of how my body looks. Why can’t I find a nice guy who sees more than just my looks?
    How are you being used for sex if you arent actually having any?

    You are meeting the wrong sort of guy and maybe you are in the wrong place? Try different places or activities. More respectful men are out there.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Everytime I start speaking to a guy, it always ends up him talking about my body and then sex. I’m very curvy, I have a big bum and big boobs. I usually cover up but men still comment on my body. One time I was on a date with a guy and he said I look like the type to **** but not date. Somehow men think I’m slutty because of how my body looks. Why can’t I find a nice guy who sees more than just my looks?
    Ah, see sad things is your always going to be seen as a sex doll by lots of men as lots of men think nothing of sex, and ****boys are being bred like crazy. Ironically, some girls, especially the ones who fall for said ****boys envy you and would crave for this.

    Anywho, honestly theirs nothing you can really do. Meeting people in new relationships, especially through dating websites and apps like Tinder, often resulting in sexual relationships.

    The only way your going get a guy to like you for who you are is:
    -if you like a guy for who they are (not saying you don't)
    -chance
    -if you have known them and they have known you for a long time say through school; this is the best way, as some people you may have known for an extremely long time.
    -If you do meet new people, make sure to go out with them and go on adventures/activities (maybe demanding like paintball). This makes it hard for people to act fake, you can see what they like and love and how they react

    Good luck anyways :groovy:
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    Maybe try to date guys you know a bit more before going out so you can judge their character. And make your displeasure known if someone says something totally crass to you.
 
 
 
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