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    I mean the girls who don't want to but do it anyway and then regret it. Is it just because they're scared of the guy losing interest? This is re. another thread but didn't want to derail it. I've seen things in the news about parents keeping tabs on kids phones because apparently more and more nudes are sent but I don't get why people feel so pressured? Is it just a thing when you're young?
    Obviously fine to send nudes if you want to, I just mean the people who don't want to but send them anyway.
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    I mean the girls who don't want to but do it anyway and then regret it. Is it just because they're scared of the guy losing interest? This is re. another thread but didn't want to derail it. I've seen things in the news about parents keeping tabs on kids phones because apparently more and more nudes are sent but I don't get why people feel so pressured? Is it just a thing when you're young?
    Obviously fine to send nudes if you want to, I just mean the people who don't want to but send them anyway.
    Excuse. Unless a gun is held to a head, there is no pressure to do anything on life.

    Peer pressure only exists for those who are weak. O for one never give into any pressure regardless of what is said or done. A true friend never forces another friend to do
    anything they don't want to.
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    Girls are stupid and weak, they're learning though. I mean they could easily just not do it but they're scared coz they want to impress guys which means they have to learn the hard way. Also, it's quite likely the guys suck them in to it, say nice things to them and so so. It's sad but true.
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    if you're a lonely ****, who has nothing in her life and is absolutely desperate for some love. you meet this guy and he gives you what you want. he's everything to you but starts pressurising you to do something you don't want to do. you don't want leave this guy because you'll end up sad again. can you kinda see why?

    that's one reason.
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    Some girls can easily get baited. Sometimes its too easy. In my 5 years of high school, damn its mad how it easy it is and sad how sometimes the nice but [ugly] girls get played by couple of horny guys.

    Some people are actually very insecure, and genuinely wear a mask to school, work or wherever, and we will never know their true face. Sometimes they do it to hop on the trend, do it because "everyone's doing it"

    But again, really its just a combination of feelings and teenage girl hormones that **** with logic and pressure them to send nudes, only to realise later that they should not have done that, and that porn, a free VPN and a warm bed was needed to fulfil her sexual desires.

    Sad times. Ah well, atleast teenagers aren't doing something even more stupid...such as eating tide pods for example who would ever think of doing that AhhahAhHahA :rofl:
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    if you're a lonely ****, who has nothing in her life and is absolutely desperate for some love. you meet this guy and he gives you what you want. he's everything to you but starts pressurising you to do something you don't want to do. you don't want leave this guy because you'll end up sad again. can you kinda see why?

    that's one reason.
    Nope. The girl needs to get a grip and realise a guy who cares doesn't pressure like that.
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    Nope. The girl needs to get a grip and realise a guy who cares doesn't pressure like that.
    all i'm saying is that some girls are mentally ****ed up and need to get their ass to therapy.
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    i mean even famous girls get naked nowadays... (iphoto leaks) (miley cyrus route) (kim k original claim to fame)
    alot of bfs film their girls during sex then shame them later...

    these are the times....we live in lol...

    then there are girls that go half naked on instagram for the views...

    but the social backlash is so much less no one really cares..

    some of these incidents would have removed you as a member of society for life in the past,

    so we have progessed yet regressed i would say.
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    all i'm saying is that some girls are mentally ****ed up and need to get their ass to therapy.
    I agree with that. And you're probably right, just difficult to imagine being in that position.
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    would you tell a sufferer of depression to get their **** together and stop being so sad?
    I dunno why that's relevant
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    Sending nudes is so not worth it. If screenshoted or saved without your acknowledgment, they can be a threat to your future career etc. For me, it’s real life or nothing! :’) At my school the police have been called several times for cases to do with nudes. Never feel pressured to do something that could jeopardise your future.
 
 
 
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