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    Youve never spoken to her. You dont like her. You like the idea of her.
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    (Original post by Miller_the_meme)
    Think about why you like her so much, if there isn't a reason in particular then there shouldn't be anything tying you to her still. I think you should try to move on.
    There is no reason why I like her - I just do. I'm trying to move on but can't.
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    I just had a thought, maybe show her how much she means to u and maybe impress her with something is there something that u like and she likes I wouldn't give up just like that I wouldn't
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    Guys not being rude, what year are you all in
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    (Original post by Baza2002)
    I do know that (I have my ways of finding out about people...)
    that line alone makes me understand why she said no
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    (Original post by KimNoel)
    I just had a thought, maybe show her how much she means to u and maybe impress her with something is there something that u like and she likes I wouldn't give up just like that I wouldn't
    I've never spoken to her but I can find out about her. I might try that. I'll get working now on finding out things she likes.
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    Good I could help out if you need
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    (Original post by Ray_Shadows)
    that line alone makes me understand why she said no
    I don't find out about people like that.
    My friends are close(ish) friends with her best friends/close friends. I find out about people from their friends and from looking at how they act and looking at what their friends are like
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    If you have never spoken to her, how do you know you like her? I have had the same problem and it seems like you have built her up to be a person that she isn't. You imagine that you like her but you don't really know her. Your favorite part of the day is thinking about "her" but it's really just your imagination because you crave affection. Why even like someone who is avoiding you and won't accept your Facebook request. You need to come to terms with the fact that your attraction to her is a figment of your imagination and move on. You will find someone you truly love someday.
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    (Original post by Baza2002)
    I would do that but I don't really think that it is right to do that to someone.
    Well it's just can give you a chance to let her to see your self as a person, and let you know her better as person, so in the end you maybe find her not so attractive, or maybe opposite - you can attract her with your "real personality" . But is all up to you, I just suggest one of many options...
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    (Original post by KimNoel)
    Good I could help out if you need
    How do I ask my friends about her interests/what she likes, without letting them know I am going to try and impress her?
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    (Original post by Baza2002)
    I don't find out about people like that.
    My friends are close(ish) friends with her best friends/close friends. I find out about people from their friends and from looking at how they act and looking at what their friends are like
    ah ok then , i was gonna say if i had a girl know everything little about me without her knowing/telling her then i would be creeped out aswell

    my last bit of advice is simply to give it time , you'll come around to forgetting about her
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    (Original post by Alexnoone)
    Well it's just can give you a chance to let her to see your self as a person, and let you know her better as person, so in the end you maybe find her not so attractive, or maybe opposite - you can attract her with your "real personality" . But is all up to you, I just suggest one of many options...
    If I do that I worry about people finding out and then people knowing I would do that. I might do it in September because we aren't going to the same college so I could create one when I'm in college and try then?
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    (Original post by MDesfontaine)
    Youve never spoken to her. You dont like her. You like the idea of her.
    Is that a tv show reference?
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    Does she have facebook or Twitter or any social media that you could look her up on
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    (Original post by KimNoel)
    Does she have facebook or Twitter or any social media that you could look her up on
    I only know she has Facebook, but her posts are only seen by friends
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    Ok have you searched her name on the internet as some times you can check what she has by that way I don't know
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    (Original post by KimNoel)
    Ok have you searched her name on the internet as some times you can check what she has by that way I don't know
    I've tried...
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    Should I try what's her name
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    (Original post by KimNoel)
    Should I try what's her name
    sorry, don't want to say.
 
 
 
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