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    I am in a bit of a dilemma and just need some advice/help. 10 years ago (when I was a student) I was having a really hard time at school, life, relationships etc. After reading countless threads on here and posting some of my issues, members helped me gain the confidence to move away.. and that is exactly what I did - I emigrated to the other side of the world.

    I recently went back to the Uk for a mini holiday and I met a guy there, one of the nicest guys I've ever met. We got on really well and I know things could go really well. We arranged to meet up again when I got back and see where things develop. He has been extremely hot and cold over text since I got back

    Hot = got a wedding this year, be nice if your my plus 1. Cold = I call him, he doesn't call back or even acknowledge the call, I'll message him asking things but he will text back but not even acknowledge any other the questions I asked.

    The dilemma is do I pursue this? I could move back to the UK but he is a very "simple man" as he calls himself, wants to stay in the place he grew up in forever and have the occasional holiday. I like travelling, seeing new things and struggle staying in one spot. I had such a bad time in the UK, I don't know if I could actually go back? If I did go back and things didn't work out, i'd be stuck but if I didn't would it be a regret?

    Thanks in advance

    Sounds like he's not the guy for you but only you can really decide
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