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Guys should stop going to Asian massage parlors for sex, bj, happy ending watch

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    Not all massage parlors are same. Most franchises are very professional & most therapists are professional. There are ethics & conduct to follow even strict draping methods.

    Men, it is against the law to ask for sexual or sensual/erotic massages. Therapists it is against law to offer such services.

    Men have the double standard of going to these Asian massage parlors for sexual services and that's the reason why they think "everyone & everyplace" is doing same or has the ability to do it so if therapist says no, they offer more $$. The Asian places have ruined the reputation & benefits of massage therapy. The only way to stop is refuse sensual/sexual services to men. Let them go to asian massage parlors & get busted. This is the reason why some men dont want to go to Asian saying they don't speak English & they just want your $$. The truth is they don't want to go anywhere where they can get caught and that's why they come to decent places & ask for sensual. And of course some men are very cheap and try to offer extra $20 for nudity or hj. Don't do it, not worth it.

    I think men have a double standard where they like getting these services for a little extra but turn around and not trust their gf for doing massage on men because they know what men want. They know the girls can make easy extra $$ for doing sensual in nude or partial nude.

    Some therapists are working too hard for $25/hr at franchises. They can't afford to go on their own, pay rent, advertise, buy oils, sheets, pay for laundry services. They have bills to pay and sometimes they have no choice but to do a little "more" for more $$. However if they do it once, this client will come back and say "you did it last time why not this time?".

    Every therapist is unique in style. The competition is fierce for therapeutic massage. You can get in for $40/hr. Some will not pay $75/hr for therapeutic even if the massage is better than Asian. I met my bf in my massage studio last year. He saw my ad on a legit massagetherapy.com site, liked my photo & background from middle East and made appt. His first massage was Swedish. The 2nd time he came, he asked if i do other modalities. I said yes. He said anything sensual? I said I do Tantra Only to help people Delay their release with breathing & meditation techniques. Well when he turned around face up and part of tantra massage is to graze over the privates so he found out what I was doing but didnt say it was bothering him until 6 months down the road. He was just asking if any of the men *** & how i stop them from cuming. I use edging technique to stop them. Like if i knoe they get too hard, i stop and massage other areas. I stopped offering tantra in september 2017. I left massage for teaching. I didn't like it, too many kids, loud noise, basically instead of teaching I was babysitting. It was low pay. I left teaching and started massaging again for franchise and I working for myself 4 days a week. It's just temporary because it's very physical work, requires using your body to applying pressure on client. Some clients want deep pressure and i cannot do it. I do light to medium/firm. I don't advertise for fbsm. Although once I did with sexy but dressed photos on backpage massage category, not under body rub or not under escort nor adult. Be found out & got pissed off saying fbsm + half dressed photos = hooker. I was advertising $120/hr but I also stated No FS. He just didn't understand. He thought I am messing around with other men by advertising fbsm with hot photos showing legs & cleavage. But I was dressed in halter top & shorts. I never did anything besides massage. I didn't do hj, bj, nor sex.
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    oke, will keep in mind
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    Understand your point but it's unfair to blame it on all men.
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    (Original post by niksur7135)
    Understand your point but it's unfair to blame it on all men.
    Why do u say it's unfair to blame all men? Not all men are perverts. Most are. Sensual or erotic massages started with men asking for more and believe me even some young Asian girls don't want to do it but they do for their pimp or They get abused. Others do it for money only. If men didn't ask for erotic/sensual/happy massages, massage therapy would have a better reputation for healing & relaxation. Relaxation does not mean erotic or sensual massage. Even the ones coming for therapeutic at legit places are moving hips, humping tables, sliding sheets off their privates, getting boners. Its gross! How come women don't ask for sensual? Most men are creeps
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    (Original post by SweetG51)
    Why do u say it's unfair to blame all men? Not all men are perverts. Most are. Sensual or erotic massages started with men asking for more and believe me even some young Asian girls don't want to do it but they do for their pimp or They get abused. Others do it for money only. If men didn't ask for erotic/sensual/happy massages, massage therapy would have a better reputation for healing & relaxation. Relaxation does not mean erotic or sensual massage. Even the ones coming for therapeutic at legit places are moving hips, humping tables, sliding sheets off their privates, getting boners. Its gross! How come women don't ask for sensual? Most men are creeps
    Of course there are f***ing creeps or there but not everyone is.

    Edit- you said yourself "not all men are perverts"
 
 
 
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