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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Is it slutty to meet a guy just for sex?
    As posted above, by the definition of the word, yes.

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    We are not in a relationship at all
    I disagree. Again, as above, it's a relationship know as 'friends with benefits'. Even if you don't talk much, I'd call having regular sex with someone, at least friendly

    Now slutty as the term is widely used these days, I'd suggest it's entirely subjective opinion, rather than an absolute, definitive, objective, yes it's slutty, or no it's not. It's all down to individual morality and ethics, yours, his, anyone else's.

    So long as all involved are; honest, genuine and sincere about their thoughts, feelings and emotions, so no-one comes away feeling used, strung along on false promises, or coerced, then all should be ok. Sex is one of the greatest pleasures in life, no-one should be shamed or ashamed for enjoying it. Have fun
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    noope that's actually every guys dream ...straight forward smooshing
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Is it slutty to meet a guy just for sex?

    Everytime we have met we have had sex

    The only time we talk is when him or me sends a message just saying can you come over

    We are not in a realthionship at all
    No it's not, it's just casual sex. Have your fun. Anyone who judges you on it are probably just jealous they don't get to have the same fun.

    Seriously, you're young (since you're on studentroom). You're meeting with one guy also, it's not like you're sleeping around with 3 different guys at the same time, that'd be considered slutty. But just one? Nah, just keep enjoying yourself and have fun.
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    No. Guys can do it without being called slutty - it's not slutty for you either. You do you
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    One of the definitions for the word "slut" is

    "a sexually promiscuous woman"

    http://www.dictionary.com/browse/slut


    Meeting a guy solely for sex would heavily imply that...


    Therefore I think there's a strong case for your behavior being deemed as slutty..........
    Yeah, but when it's the same guy all the time (very much the case here) that's hardly promiscuous, is it?

    In fact it's no more promiscuous than a married woman!
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    1) Disparaging and Offensive. a sexually promiscuous woman, or a woman who behaves or dresses in an overtly sexual way.

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    (Original post by cat_mac)
    Yes it’s slutty, and there’s nothing wrong with being slutty. Guys get applauded for having a lot of casual sex and girls get shamed, i’m all for everyone doing whatever they want with their sex lives.

    Have a lot of sex? Good for you! Saving sex for “the one”? Great! Don’t enjoy sex and abstain from it completely? Congrats on knowing yourself and finding what works for you! Let’s all stop judging people because of the regularity of their orgasms.
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