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    I really wanted to get some objective advice from people other than my friends and family.
    So I have been dating this guy for over 2 years and I am really in love with him but the issue is he never has time to see me anymore. He was never really the romantic type to take me out on dates etc but used to meet me more often. Nowadays, it is really hard for me to fit into his busy schedule and he seems to prefer an evening by himself to 'rest' rather than spend time with me.
    I know this may sound really clingy but we had a lot of arguments and issues over this and it just doesn't seem to get any better and if it does it's only for a bit. We text every day but I would really like to see him more than once a week or once every two weeks even.
    I guess the question is: is it possible that I am just overly clingy and should give him space or does the fact he has no time for me just mean he's not that into me?

    Without knowing you or him or more about your individual circumstances it's hard to give advice, however if I was that guy and I wanted a rest period because I was genuinely busy I would find a way to be able to rest in the company of the girl I was dating/seeing/ in love with etc. Even if it just meant sitting together on the sofa and watching a bit of television.
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