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    Hi guys, i’m 23/f , working as a software engineer. I have a bf, he is a gentle man (25yrs) . He is so perfect most of the times. But, i get angry on him for silly stuff n scold him badly.. even he used to quarrel with me , but when i apologise he usually become normal. He is such a sweetheart. But, I hurt him a lot. Whenever we are together, we have never fought. We live in different towns, so mostly we communicate through mobile phones. Every day i quarrel with him. But, whenever he is with me i hav never scolded him. please help me guys.
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    Hi guys, i’m 23/f , working as a software engineer. I have a bf, he is a gentle man (25yrs) . He is so perfect most of the times. But, i get angry on him for silly stuff n scold him badly.. even he used to quarrel with me , but when i apologise he usually become normal. He is such a sweetheart. But, I hurt him a lot. Whenever we are together, we have never fought. We live in different towns, so mostly we communicate through mobile phones. Every day i quarrel with him. But, whenever he is with me i hav never scolded him. please help me guys.
    You might be insecure, frustrated or angry either at your own life or this other person.

    Not talking about it in person undermined your relationship and one day he may turn around say hes bored and just dump you.

    Find out what is a matter with the relationship and talk.
    Find a different way of dealing with issues and frustrations.
    Perhaps you want more response from him or someone with a different personality who will stand up to you more?

    Starting to sound high maintenance.
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    Actually we have a problem in our life. His ex gf is disturbing him. She is kind of a psycho, that’s y he dumped her. But,still she didnt leave him n she wants to marry him. Actually she doesn’t know our relationship but all of our frnds knw abt us and happy for us because they know abt his ex’s character. But, his ex doesn’t know abt me. May be because of this i’m feeling insecure as well as frustrated as you told. He couldn’t get rid of her.. She is blackmailing him that she will go to police if he refuses to marry her since they had physical relationship. He and his parents are scared about it. By the way we are from India . 😒
 
 
 
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