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    Never thought I'd actually have to ask this question... but here it goes:

    The group of friends in question are ones that I have known for around about 5 years. I've never been in any massive arguments with them and I talk to them every day. They invite me to their parties and I invite them to my parties. However, recently there has been a couple of occasions when they have gone to parties that I wasn't initially invited to, but they never seem to ask if I can get invited, which I always have done if I was in their situation. So, it ends up in me seeing them on a night out without me, never having even mentioned it to me. Idk, it feels a bit snakey to me that they are never bothered about getting me invited to places.
    Also, whenever meetups are organised, I am the one who has to do the organising i.e. I have to initiate the talks to plan a day out. I don't know whether this is because they aren't bothered about seeing me, or whether it is because they expect me to make arrangements.
    Feeling slightly betrayed, and although I am happy 99% of the time, I am feeling quite depressed right now.
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    that is pretty snakey
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Never thought I'd actually have to ask this question... but here it goes:

    The group of friends in question are ones that I have known for around about 5 years. I've never been in any massive arguments with them and I talk to them every day. They invite me to their parties and I invite them to my parties. However, recently there has been a couple of occasions when they have gone to parties that I wasn't initially invited to, but they never seem to ask if I can get invited, which I always have done if I was in their situation. So, it ends up in me seeing them on a night out without me, never having even mentioned it to me. Idk, it feels a bit snakey to me that they are never bothered about getting me invited to places.
    Also, whenever meetups are organised, I am the one who has to do the organising i.e. I have to initiate the talks to plan a day out. I don't know whether this is because they aren't bothered about seeing me, or whether it is because they expect me to make arrangements.
    Feeling slightly betrayed, and although I am happy 99% of the time, I am feeling quite depressed right now.
    Thoughts?
    I don’t think they really value your friendship as much as you value theirs. Perhaps go quiet for a bit and see if they initiate anything? If not then it might be time to find some friends who appreciate you better.
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    I think I might talk about it to them it tomorrow
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    I think I might talk about it to them it tomorrow
    How did it go?
 
 
 
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