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Im bisexual and in love with my best friend. watch

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    Im a boy and he is a boy but i have only recently discovered my sexuality in the past 2 years. I love him so much and i actually want to spend the rest of my life with him but he openly says being gay is wrong. wtf do i do????
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    You move on! I've been attracted to women my whole life but there was this guy I was friends with and he was amazing, I just clicked with him on everything. After feeling a sort of emotional connection I started looking at him differently, not sexually but something about the way he looked did light a spark in me.. anyway, I told him how I felt and he was cool with it, we even kissed but since then I've realised we just cant be friends because first of all it confuses me, second he'll never see me the same way I see him and it's just a waste of time. I used to think I'd give it time and we could go back to being friends but to feel that way again is just scary and confusing for me, why put yourself in a position of guarnteed unreciprocated love?

    So drop him, move on and find someone who'll love you back. Although, if we were best friends I think that might've been satisfying enough knowing he loved me back as much as he's capable of but it was still weird for me. The best to move on from someone is for them to make it easy, get him to be rude or something to make you hate him and you'll find it 100x easier!
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