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    I had a thing with a guy in the summer, he was a really nice guy, but never truly told me how he felt and it was always back n forth because he never would tell me how he felt! I said i couldn’t do that and would remain just friends with him. 3 months later i met my boyfriend, ( I’ve been with him 9 months now) and he is amazing! I couldn’t fault him down to a T! But this other guy kept sending me little messages here and there and I would always ignore them! I really do like my boyfriend, he makes me so happy. Anyway at Christmas I was with friends having drinks and this guy was here, after many drinks we spoke to each other and he confessed how I was his biggest regret, he parents knew about me etc and basically he had massively downplayed how he felt about me and really regretted it but then said he was speaking to a new girl, so again being confusing like In the summer. I ignored it really because it was Christmas and he was quite drunk. But in the last few months I can’t help but find myself checking up on him and seeing what he is doing, even though I’m in a great relationship. I found out that he is now with this new girl and it truly made me feel sick to my stomach, I don’t know why. Especially after all that was said at Christmas while he is talking to this girl! I don’t know really what to do?? I feel like I should just block him and move on with my life but I need some advice!
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    I had a thing with a guy in the summer, he was a really nice guy, but never truly told me how he felt and it was always back n forth because he never would tell me how he felt! I said i couldn’t do that and would remain just friends with him. 3 months later i met my boyfriend, ( I’ve been with him 9 months now) and he is amazing! I couldn’t fault him down to a T! But this other guy kept sending me little messages here and there and I would always ignore them! I really do like my boyfriend, he makes me so happy. Anyway at Christmas I was with friends having drinks and this guy was here, after many drinks we spoke to each other and he confessed how I was his biggest regret, he parents knew about me etc and basically he had massively downplayed how he felt about me and really regretted it but then said he was speaking to a new girl, so again being confusing like In the summer. I ignored it really because it was Christmas and he was quite drunk. But in the last few months I can’t help but find myself checking up on him and seeing what he is doing, even though I’m in a great relationship. I found out that he is now with this new girl and it truly made me feel sick to my stomach, I don’t know why. Especially after all that was said at Christmas while he is talking to this girl! I don’t know really what to do?? I feel like I should just block him and move on with my life but I need some advice!
    Move on. Both of you are in relationships now so it's best not to complicate anything and carry on with your lives. You said you're happy with your boyfriend so let that continue without the other guy.
 
 
 
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