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    I've bought a guy a drink on a night out, actually probably more than once because I either had to spend £10 to use my card lol or the bartender accidentally charged me for an extra drink because they didn't hear me over the music. I usually ask the person next to me if they'd like a drink, always a guy lol but they act surprised and get happy but now I'm thinking should I buy a guy a drink on nights out 🤔

    Maybe this is the way forward we'll sometimes, I usually feel guilty when guys offer to buy me drinks.
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    I'm always sound with other people buying my ale.
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    I’d feel delighted if a girl bought me a drink, I think it’s very kind and the polar opposite to what many girls who think they’re entitled the world would do. Just be careful to clearly distinguish this action between a guy you’re just being friendly with and a guy that you find attractive and want to go down that route with - other guys may view you buying them a drink a sign of sexual interest when it probably isn’t, but if it actually is then give the guy clear hints
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    It happened once..... a girl in a club just walked up to me and the first thing she said was "would you like a drink?"

    Due to gender roles I felt a bit uncomfortable having a female stranger buy me the drink and was about to politely say no, then it dawned on me that if I said no she would take that as i'm not interested in her ....so reluctantly I said yes and she bought me a drink.

    I don't think there's anything wrong with women buying a man a drink, but due to traditional gender roles I did feel a bit funny.............
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I’d feel delighted if a girl bought me a drink, I think it’s very kind and the polar opposite to what many girls who think they’re entitled the world would do. Just be careful to clearly distinguish this action between a guy you’re just being friendly with and a guy that you find attractive and want to go down that route with - other guys may view you buying them a drink a sign of sexual interest when it probably isn’t, but if it actually is then give the guy clear hints
    I get what you mean, when I gave a male coursemate a drink that the bartender have given to me as an extra drink I didn't order, he was looking at me as if I like him but the truth is I ordered two shots of tequila and a snakebite and tbh I didn't want to have to hold two snakebite pints for god knows how long around the club when I'm already holding my bag.
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    (Original post by ANM775)
    It happened once..... a girl in a club just walked up to me and the first thing she said was "would you like a drink?"

    Due to gender roles I felt a bit uncomfortable having a female stranger buy me the drink and was about to politely say no, then it dawned on me that if I said no she would take that as i'm not interested in her ....so reluctantly I said yes and she bought me a drink.

    I don't think there's anything wrong with women buying a man a drink, but due to traditional gender roles I did feel a bit funny.............
    Yeah I don't think I'd directly walk up to a guy and ask, probably only at the bar if we're ordering and I have to spend a little more.
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    i would feel very uncomfortable with receiving a drink from a girl, but thats partly because i dont like getting things for free anyway. but yeah i'd rather we bought our own drinks.
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    I would love it but I would feel like I owe her the next round, I couldn’t just take it and leave like some girls do to guys
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    (Original post by Zxyn)
    I would love it but I would feel like I owe her the next round, I couldn’t just take it and leave like some girls do to guys
    I understand, tbh I don't really drinks from guys because I feel bad lol
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    (Original post by CollectiveSoul)
    i would feel very uncomfortable with receiving a drink from a girl, but thats partly because i dont like getting things for free anyway. but yeah i'd rather we bought our own drinks.
    Fair enough
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