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How long do you guys last? watch

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    ive had sex a fair few times, with different girls and especially if im a bit drunk i can last maybe 15 minutes, but usually i cant last very long, and if i dont think about it ill last maybe 2-3 minutes maximum. Is this normal? and either way any tips to last longer?
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    2-3 minutes isn’t very long, the poor girls. Anything under 5 is generally to short and anything over 20 is too long IMO.

    You do realise it isn’t just about YOU finishing right?
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    How long do you take when masturbating?

    The basic idea is to learn the signs that you're getting close to coming and, if you don't want to do so just yet, reduce the stimulation so you don't. That's learnt most easily when there's no-one else involved, but once you've learnt, it applies to partner sex too.

    15 - 30 mins is average for most. anything less than 15 mins when you're trying to make it last is pretty short. How long are you going between times? including masturbation?

    Best way to get round it is to masturbate a few hours before sex, you'll last a while then.

    Once you get more used to sex, you can last as long as you want to .

    Take it out when you're starting to get too aroused and give your partner oral.

    Wear a condom, if you're not already.


    Change your angle and movements to something that's less arousing for you, but still arousing for your beloved.

    Or take the alternative approach of teasing her loads before putting it in. Starting an hour before you jump into into bed, with how you talk to her, rub her shoulders, hug her, cuddle her, hold her and kiss her. The idea being that she's already climaxed or is 2 minutes from it when you start intercourse.

    BTW it's complete nonsense that anything over 20 minutes is too long. Extended love making sessions are great.

    There are times when 2-3 mins is enough and 20 is way too long. It’s not all about maintaining time and same rhythm. Friction burn is not that fun.

    If you’re having sex with same person you can learn orgasm needs. Some cannot via penetration so however long you’re there won’t matter. If penetration is important, there are multiple ways to do that.
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