I'm in secondary school and not really friends with any boys. I sit by them in class but they already have the female friends they want but I really want to become better friends with them or even go out with one (that might sound weird) . Any tips?
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Be lucky you’re in a mixed school. I go all girls it’s hell.
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Theyre overrated
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Fix your studies first then think about it in sixthform
--- but why dont you just talk to them, banter with them. I mean in class if you're next to one or same table, start small, talk about the teacher, stress,ask what's next lesson, just general topics,, then get to know them....
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Find a boy who shares one of your biggest interests and be careful of entering into a relationship..... can get way way to intense when your 16
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Hit me up I’m available
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(Original post by MozartEd)
Fix your studies first then think about it in sixthform--- but why dont you just talk to them, banter with them. I mean in class if you're next to one or same table, start small, talk about the teacher, stress,ask what's next lesson, just general topics,, then get to know them....
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I'm in secondary school and not really friends with any boys. I sit by them in class but they already have the female friends they want but I really want to become better friends with them or even go out with one (that might sound weird) . Any tips?
Also there's nothing weird about wanting to go out with a boyjust don't take it too personally if none of them are interested. Teenage boys are asshats mostly.
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I'd be happy to get to know you, msg my snapchat "tikkaboi"
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Just talk to a guy, odds are they'll be ecstatic that a girl spoke to them
You said you sit by some boys? Just talk to them in lessons, ask them questions and generally "banter" with them and go from there -
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Just talk to a guy, odds are they'll be ecstatic that a girl spoke to them
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Ugh I’m cringey with banter, what sort of thing do you mean?
I used to be like you, except I think I was far more socially inept so it was awkward, to say the least, when looking back (but I'm still friends with them so it must have not been that bad). I started, when I had a dawning realisation that I did not want to end up lonely so, out of desperation, I decided to try and talk to girls . hahasdhaksjdhassajhdfja.
All I can advise you to do is to talk to them like you would with your girl friends and try not to overthink it. Nowadays, I like to think everyone is my best friend unless proven otherwise - that has worked really well for me so far.Last edited by username3482522; 06-03-2018 at 21:20. -
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Ugh I’m cringey with banter, what sort of thing do you mean?
I used to be the exact same but with girls, just talk, we're really not that different
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