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    Hi

    Male here

    So for a number of reasons, such as lack of luck in straight date, I became bicurious but was too scared to act on it for years, obviously being a new thing completely to me and I was not the type to try casual fun.

    Anyway, I did casual fun (making out/sex etc) with escorts and liked/like it. I was/am heteroromantic bisexual (romantically and sexually into girls, only sexually into guys - feminine guys) but now, as I've done a lot of stuff sexually, interested in the idea of what sex would be like with a guy I care for (fwb in a way) and someone I kind of dated.

    Next, I may just date a guy long term and have a serious, romantic-orientated relationship?

    So I'm a bit confused about my sexuality, but not overly worried. Anyone here feel the same way?

    No pressure to get married, and I do still like women (they turn me on, have crushes all the time, etc).


    Thanks!
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    I imagine some people do, yes. It's fairly common.
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    I’m 15 and I’m definitely gay and out when did everyone else know and come out
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    I first knew back in 2011
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    heteroro... what?
    Yeah I'm confused about my sexuality too, im not sure if im bisexual or not
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    (Original post by justanotherchica)
    heteroro... what?
    Yeah I'm confused about my sexuality too, im not sure if im bisexual or not
    Have you experimented or told anyone?
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    I am gay and 15, haven't come out or anything.
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    (Original post by justanotherchica)
    heteroro... what?
    Yeah I'm confused about my sexuality too, im not sure if im bisexual or not
    Same, bicurious, thought I liked another girl two years ago but wasn't sure. I have male crushes and haven't had a male crush since but like looking at female models more than male models but I'm slightly confused.
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    (Original post by Purplemonkeys)
    Same, bicurious, thought I liked another girl two years ago but wasn't sure. I have male crushes and haven't had a male crush since but like looking at female models more than male models but I'm slightly confused.
    That's pretty similar to me. I especially like androgynous male models - so hot!

    Have you acted on your feelings?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I am gay and 15, haven't come out or anything.
    I have a friend who recently came out about a female crush she'd had for a while so she's not sure whether she's lesbian, bisexual, bicurious or pansexial but coming out has lifted a weight off her shoulders.
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    Coming out must be so scary. I am telling more and more close friends I can trust, but if I do date a guy long term, then it is a must. No idea if that's even what I want though, but open to at least trying it.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    That's pretty similar to me. I especially like androgynous male models - so hot!

    Have you acted on your feelings?
    No, bit young to. Don't like them anymore anyway but nobody has actually liked me back yet (most of my crushes and ex crushes are male with the exception of that one mentioned).
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    Have you experimented or told anyone?
    no i havent really done either
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    idk fam

    Think I'm bisexual but then again I'm not 100% sure of my gender.

    Boi life is confusing.
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    Hi

    Male here

    So for a number of reasons, such as lack of luck in straight date, I became bicurious but was too scared to act on it for years, obviously being a new thing completely to me and I was not the type to try casual fun.

    Anyway, I did casual fun (making out/sex etc) with escorts and liked/like it. I was/am heteroromantic bisexual (romantically and sexually into girls, only sexually into guys - feminine guys) but now, as I've done a lot of stuff sexually, interested in the idea of what sex would be like with a guy I care for (fwb in a way) and someone I kind of dated.

    Next, I may just date a guy long term and have a serious, romantic-orientated relationship?

    So I'm a bit confused about my sexuality, but not overly worried. Anyone here feel the same way?

    No pressure to get married, and I do still like women (they turn me on, have crushes all the time, etc).


    Thanks!
    My feelings are so similar to this. Male here too. The thing is I know that I like girls, both romantically and sexually and I definitely know that I wouldn't want anything romantic with a guy. But I do question myself sometimes as to what having sex with a guy might be like and at times will actually believe that sex with a guy must be a whole lot better.
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    (Original post by Bill Nye)
    idk fam

    Think I'm bisexual but then again I'm not 100% sure of my gender.

    Boi life is confusing.
    Give it time.
 
 
 
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