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    My boyfriend keeps telling me other women are hot and how much he thinks they’re attractive and honestly i have no idea how to react anymore? I used to get annoyed and show him it hurt but now i just makes me upset privately, why does he do it?
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    Tell him to stop, talk to him. If that doesn't work then start calling other guys hot and attractive in front of him. So he knows how you feel.
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    (Original post by Pheonix4)
    Tell him to stop, talk to him. If that doesn't work then start calling other guys hot and attractive in front of him. So he knows how you feel.
    I have done this and asked him not too but he still does it?? Why do you think he does? I’m just confused
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    Honestly that's a d*** move and immature thing to do, especially right in front of you. You should tell him to cut it out or do what he's doing back to him.
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    it seems disrespectful

    each time he does it act annoyed and withhold sex from him that night

    just like a dog will eventually "get it" if you reward him for some behaviors and punish him for others, ..so will your bf.
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    (Original post by alicesmiloves)
    Honestly that's a d*** move and immature thing to do, especially right in front of you. You should tell him to cut it out or do what he's doing back to him.
    I have asked him not too but i think he just finds it funny and carries on? I dont think i could do it back to him because i respect him too much haha, i just dont know if its a normal thing for guys to do to their gfs? Maybe im just being insecure idk
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    (Original post by Anonymous 12345)
    I have done this and asked him not too but he still does it?? Why do you think he does? I’m just confused
    Because he doesn't respect you or your feelings.

    There's only so much more you can take and it already sounds unhealthy.

    Insist that you don't like when he does it and say that you won't tolerate anymore if he continues. By that you imply that you'll end things if he keeps it up. He'll get the message hopefully.
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    I'm sure he doesn't mean anything by it. I personally never comment on peoples appearance even when i'm with my guy friends, but i know other guys do a lot. If it bothers you though, just talk to him and i'm sure he'll stop. Seriously, ask him anything you want/need to know and tell him about anything that bothers you, that's how you build a strong relationship, its best to be open. The best example is during sex. The other person does not know if what they are doing is right or wrong, especially if its their first time. The best experience is when you give feedback rather than letting them on with something you don't like. It genuinely annoys me when my girlfriend doesn't tell me about her worries
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    I'm sure he doesn't mean anything by it. I personally never comment on peoples appearance even when i'm with my guy friends, but i know other guys do a lot. If it bothers you though, just talk to him and i'm sure he'll stop. Seriously, ask him anything you want/need to know and tell him about anything that bothers you, that's how you build a strong relationship, its best to be open. The best example is during sex. The other person does not know if what they are doing is right or wrong, especially if its their first time. The best experience is when you give feedback rather than letting them on with something you don't like. It genuinely annoys me when my girlfriend doesn't tell me about her worries
    I do try to tell him but he just laughs about it, i don’t want to be a whiny ***** and keep on, you know? I hate to be that girl that doesn’t stop picking up on things but i just dont think its a nice thing to do to your other half...thank you for your advice though, i’ll try talking to him again
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    (Original post by Anonymous 12345)
    I have asked him not too but i think he just finds it funny and carries on? I dont think i could do it back to him because i respect him too much haha, i just dont know if its a normal thing for guys to do to their gfs? Maybe im just being insecure idk
    Than he is clearly immature to be in a relationship because that's not a funny thing to do. I'll tell you this, when my boyfriend and I talk about attractive people, we are joking around or its about famous people but we know that we wouldn't say that to each other to make the other feel bad. I get you don't want to do what he does to you either. Try this, act like you don't care at all about his comments, like they are most boring thing you have ever heard, and just start talking about something else, and if he changes, it means he was just trying to bother you and it doesn't work anymore. Some guys are like that when they're immature.
 
 
 
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