For context, I am an 18 year old male virgin.
For some reason I get turned on at the thought of being humiliated/dominated in a sexual way and often think along those lines when masterbating.
I have always been a bit like this but never given it much thought. I can get off normally and I am sure I would enjoy a normal sexual encounter but there is something about being submissive that gets to me.
As a bloke this feels weird and i worry I have a mental issue/ it is linked to my hypochondria+ general anxiety.
If you knew me in real life you would think I am a normal confident bloke so it is not as if it affects me too much.
I just worry that it is not healthy to fantises being dominated by a woman and that it is bad for my mental state.
Honestly given such an opportunity I would likely not even go through to it because I do portray myself as a powerful character and would not want a dent in my ego
I do have a dominating personality that is i initiate discussion I take leadership in group activities, I do speeches, I debate etc etc... yet when it comes to sexual desire there is nothing that turns me on than being at the will of a woman my age that I have a weakness for.
Do i have issues?
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- Thread Starter
- 08-03-2018 16:31
- 09-03-2018 13:39
No weird at all and probably one of the more common sexual fantasies. It's got absolutely nothing to do with any mental issues or your ego.
- 09-03-2018 13:45
No, you don't have a mental issue.
That said this forum isn't kink friendly (mods similarly seem to get twitchy) in the slightest so you'd be better off going to /r/bdsm or similar if you're interested in researching.