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    Hey there, does any one of u experience the same like me? I have a really puffy vagina in which I feel really quite shy and ashamed to tell others. I cant wear tight skirt/dress/pants/trousers with soft material because then it would not be able to withstand or press it flat. It would be so obvious when I wear tighter outfit, people would ask why there is something like guy’s Body part down there. And when I lie down it would be obvious too.☹️😣I normally just wear jeans or other type or pants with rough material. My clitoris and everything are all inside it, unlike those I saw online those girls have very flat vagina and their clitoris and labia can be seen easily.
    I never dare to be naked in-front of anyone too because I know mine is different 😭

    Girls please share your experiences/opinions
    Guys(if any), does any of your gf/ex gf has puffy vagina? Does it affect or how does it affect the sexual experience?

    Appreciate your reply 🙏🙏
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    I'm not entirely sure what you mean by "puffy vagina". Do you mean you have a lot of fat in the lower abdomen/pubic area? If so, it's really no big deal - most bigger girls have this and there are guys who find it attractive. I'm not a guy, but from what I heard from my male friends, by the time a guy is in the bedroom with a girl, he really doesn't care what things look like down there.

    I was also a bit concerned about how things look down below (my labia are different sizes) but even though I don't like how they look, my BF never mentioned it and it was never a problem.

    I don't think there should be any problems to having sex because of what you describe - it's just a case of trying different positions to see what works best. Also, keeping the lights low initially until you become more comfortable with your partner may help
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    Despite what porn and photoshopped images will tell you...

    Different size labia: totally normal. Just as no-one has a totally symmetrical face, unless she's gone unnecessary surgery, no woman has totally symmetrical labia.

    Inner labia that are visible outside the outer ones: totally normal.

    See if the 'large labia project' is still on Tumblr. It has dozens and dozens and dozens of examples of totally normal women's vulvas.
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    I'm not entirely sure what you mean by "puffy vagina". Do you mean you have a lot of fat in the lower abdomen/pubic area? If so, it's really no big deal - most bigger girls have this and there are guys who find it attractive. I'm not a guy, but from what I heard from my male friends, by the time a guy is in the bedroom with a girl, he really doesn't care what things look like down there.

    I was also a bit concerned about how things look down below (my labia are different sizes) but even though I don't like how they look, my BF never mentioned it and it was never a problem.

    I don't think there should be any problems to having sex because of what you describe - it's just a case of trying different positions to see what works best. Also, keeping the lights low initially until you become more comfortable with your partner may help
    Im not actually that concerned about my labia, its actually my mons pubis? So my labia and clitoris are basically all inside, not like normal girls can be seen easily?
    When I lie down on bed or wear tight pants will be very obviously seen, like a guy’s private part☹️

    Im really worried when my bf/husband saw my mons pubis and find it weird/disappointing/not attractive 😣
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    Despite what porn and photoshopped images will tell you...

    Different size labia: totally normal. Just as no-one has a totally symmetrical face, unless she's gone unnecessary surgery, no woman has totally symmetrical labia.

    Inner labia that are visible outside the outer ones: totally normal.

    See if the 'large labia project' is still on Tumblr. It has dozens and dozens and dozens of examples of totally normal women's vulvas.
    Im sorry, I was wrong on the term used 🤦🏻*♀️ Just googled, I was actually saying Mons Pubis. My fault ,Im so sorry u typed so long to explain 😣😣
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    Im not actually that concerned about my labia, its actually my mons pubis? So my labia and clitoris are basically all inside, not like normal girls can be seen easily?
    When I lie down on bed or wear tight pants will be very obviously seen, like a guy’s private part☹️

    Im really worried when my bf/husband saw my mons pubis and find it weird/disappointing/not attractive 😣
    I thought you meant your mons pubis. But my point was that if a guy is really into you, it will not be a problem Honestly, it's really not that uncommon, especially for bigger girls (and guys).
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    Im really worried when my bf/husband saw my mons pubis and find it weird/disappointing/not attractive 😣
    Ah. Much the same applies - real people vary.

    Anyone worth being in a relationship with will be too busy going 'OMG a real naked woman' to care.
 
 
 
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