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    So, i have a crush on a girl in my school. I think about her everyday and ways to try and get her. I finally decided to try to get closer to her and atleast start talking. But with my stupid ass i thought of a plan. 1) Send a funny image to her. 2) Get laughing emojis back then continue the disccussion and slowly start talking to her in real life. The picture i sent was not funny at all and i got no laughing emoji back. I cant believe i sent that and thought it was funny but one of my close friends who i told encouraged me to send another one. Well, as you can guess it wasn't funny. I got unfriended on snap and unfollowed on instagram. I messed up big time, so i decided i would tell her everything in real life as to why i sent those messages and reveal my crush to her. Simple, right? No, i've waited two weeks to find a oppurtunity to talk to her when she's alone but she is always with her friends in school. I also get nervous when shes close to me and once she walked into my science classroom the day after she unfriended me , we both looked at each other, she had a slight smirk on her face and my entire chest area just dropped in fear of her finding out. I had one oppurtunity to talk to her but i was too scared to take it, what should i do now? Is this recoverable? I know if i don't tell her i will regret it for a long time.
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    I think you were thinking too hard about how to talk to her when you sent her the funny pictures, a simple hey should get a convo started, but no worries it happens. As for recovery, well there really is no other way than to tell her how you really feel up front. I know that can be nerve racking up, like you said, if you don't tell her you'll regret it. And it's always better not to live with regret, regardless of what happens.
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    LOL dw, stuff like this happens! That was kind of a weird move on her end as well

    My advice is to ignore her lol and talk to her normally if the opportunity ever arises
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    What was the picture you sent her? Regardless of what it was, it was a bit weird of you to send a "funny" picture to girl you've never spoken to. I don't think telling her you like her would make things any better either considering she's removed you off social media.

    Learn from your mistakes.
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    What was the picture you sent her? Regardless of what it was, it was a bit weird of you to send a "funny" picture to girl you've never spoken to. I don't think telling her you like her would make things any better either considering she's removed you off social media.

    Learn from your mistakes.
    It was really stupid.. The picture was me edited with bunny ears. I know, i cant believe i thought that was a good idea. But now i've resolved that i would message her asking if we could talk in school and arrange a time to meet up. I set myself i time limit until monday, so if i dont do it by then i've told my friend he can tell her.
 
 
 
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