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    So this isn't the attention I want, but I feel I need to share this so that people know the truth about this person and what she has done to me, and I want to ensure that she doesn't repeat it with anybody else who gets sucked in.

    For the past week, for no apparent reason, my girlfriend of 3 years _______ has completely out of the blue removed me from facebook, ignored my texts and calls and blocked my number etc. After first saying that she was 'just ill', she then started telling me that she 'wanted a break'. After a couple of clues and a naggling sense of doubt, I carried out some investigation and found this.

    Turns out she isn't ill, she is actually a prostitute having sex wth strangers in _____ right now behind my back. But that's not all...using an internet archive, I have managed to see that she was actually doing this for the duration of our relationship, from our own bed. Now I know why she would encourage me to go and visit family, and why she would be so persistent about what time I would get home from work...because whilst I was out, random local men were popping round to have sex with my girlfriend in the bed that we shared.

    I can't believe I spent 3 years with, and wanted to get married to such a vile woman. This is humiliating for me, but I feel that people deserve to know her true self so that nobody trusts her again like I did because this is an individual with no morals, empathy or even dignity for herself, somebody who definitely shouldnt be trusted. Reading her profiles is enough to make anybody sick.

    So finally, may I present to you ____, available now in _____ for your enjoyment! Don't get too close to her though...because once you fall in love with her and move in together Larry the local postman will be in your bed getting his 'bare ****' sucked by her whilst you are at work! Ah what a delightful woman, marriage material right there.
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    Just no.

    Post that and it will be "out there" forever, with your name on it.
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    Lmao, you got cucked big time.
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    Oh how horrible. No, stay off Facebook and get some counselling. Focus on you. You'll find the right person in time.
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    Don't do that, I get you're very hurt and anyone in your place would be but I wouldn't suggest you do that. Because it is one thing spreading it in person and another doing it publicly online where it will stay there for good and people can link it back to you. Plus you're going to look very bad (bad for outing her and bad because she did that to you ) you don't want more people involved in that.
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    I recommend doing it but not explicitly. Just hint at it that she’s a ****
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    go for it
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    have fun telling the world about that lying cheating scum!! tell us if she responds!
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    (Original post by Forestieri)
    Here is the text of the proposed post.

    So this isn't the attention I want, but I feel I need to share this so that people know the truth about this person and what she has done to me, and I want to ensure that she doesn't repeat it with anybody else who gets sucked in.

    For the past week, for no apparent reason, my girlfriend of 3 years _______ has completely out of the blue removed me from facebook, ignored my texts and calls and blocked my number etc. After first saying that she was 'just ill', she then started telling me that she 'wanted a break'. After a couple of clues and a naggling sense of doubt, I carried out some investigation and found this.

    Turns out she isn't ill, she is actually a prostitute having sex wth strangers in _____ right now behind my back. But that's not all...using an internet archive, I have managed to see that she was actually doing this for the duration of our relationship, from our own bed. Now I know why she would encourage me to go and visit family, and why she would be so persistent about what time I would get home from work...because whilst I was out, random local men were popping round to have sex with my girlfriend in the bed that we shared.

    I can't believe I spent 3 years with, and wanted to get married to such a vile woman. This is humiliating for me, but I feel that people deserve to know her true self so that nobody trusts her again like I did because this is an individual with no morals, empathy or even dignity for herself, somebody who definitely shouldnt be trusted. Reading her profiles is enough to make anybody sick.

    So finally, may I present to you ____, available now in _____ for your enjoyment! Don't get too close to her though...because once you fall in love with her and move in together Larry the local postman will be in your bed getting his 'bare ****' sucked by her whilst you are at work! Ah what a delightful woman, marriage material right there.
    Tbh I think that will reflect as badly on you as it will on her as difficult and heartbreaking as I'm sure the situation is for you. Best thing to do is to get yourself tested for any diseases and then focus on moving on.
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    Whatever the OP posts will be out there forever for future employers (yes, they look), and future girlfriends to find. Same goes for anyone. Telling him to post it is bad advice.
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    I guess you're going to post it. As much advice as we can give you (and the fact that the majority told you not to do it, in your previous thread), there's nothing we can do to stop you. At least keep us updated on what happens, I'm curious.
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    (Original post by Forestieri)
    Here is the text of the proposed post.

    So this isn't the attention I want, but I feel I need to share this so that people know the truth about this person and what she has done to me, and I want to ensure that she doesn't repeat it with anybody else who gets sucked in.

    For the past week, for no apparent reason, my girlfriend of 3 years _______ has completely out of the blue removed me from facebook, ignored my texts and calls and blocked my number etc. After first saying that she was 'just ill', she then started telling me that she 'wanted a break'. After a couple of clues and a naggling sense of doubt, I carried out some investigation and found this.

    Turns out she isn't ill, she is actually a prostitute having sex wth strangers in _____ right now behind my back. But that's not all...using an internet archive, I have managed to see that she was actually doing this for the duration of our relationship, from our own bed. Now I know why she would encourage me to go and visit family, and why she would be so persistent about what time I would get home from work...because whilst I was out, random local men were popping round to have sex with my girlfriend in the bed that we shared.

    I can't believe I spent 3 years with, and wanted to get married to such a vile woman. This is humiliating for me, but I feel that people deserve to know her true self so that nobody trusts her again like I did because this is an individual with no morals, empathy or even dignity for herself, somebody who definitely shouldnt be trusted. Reading her profiles is enough to make anybody sick.

    So finally, may I present to you ____, available now in _____ for your enjoyment! Don't get too close to her though...because once you fall in love with her and move in together Larry the local postman will be in your bed getting his 'bare ****' sucked by her whilst you are at work! Ah what a delightful woman, marriage material right there.

    You have had at least two previous threads on this and whilst people had sympathy, they advised you against doing anything and suggested getting some counselling and therapy.

    If any of your previous e-mails and texts to your ex were deemed unwanted, intimidating or threatening, then posting this as well would be deemed as harassment and leave you open to prosecution.

    If you are going to do it, then get on with it. I doubt it will make you feel much better for long.
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    (Original post by Forestieri)
    Here is the text of the proposed post.

    So this isn't the attention I want, but I feel I need to share this so that people know the truth about this person and what she has done to me, and I want to ensure that she doesn't repeat it with anybody else who gets sucked in.

    For the past week, for no apparent reason, my girlfriend of 3 years _______ has completely out of the blue removed me from facebook, ignored my texts and calls and blocked my number etc. After first saying that she was 'just ill', she then started telling me that she 'wanted a break'. After a couple of clues and a naggling sense of doubt, I carried out some investigation and found this.

    Turns out she isn't ill, she is actually a prostitute having sex wth strangers in _____ right now behind my back. But that's not all...using an internet archive, I have managed to see that she was actually doing this for the duration of our relationship, from our own bed. Now I know why she would encourage me to go and visit family, and why she would be so persistent about what time I would get home from work...because whilst I was out, random local men were popping round to have sex with my girlfriend in the bed that we shared.

    I can't believe I spent 3 years with, and wanted to get married to such a vile woman. This is humiliating for me, but I feel that people deserve to know her true self so that nobody trusts her again like I did because this is an individual with no morals, empathy or even dignity for herself, somebody who definitely shouldnt be trusted. Reading her profiles is enough to make anybody sick.

    So finally, may I present to you ____, available now in _____ for your enjoyment! Don't get too close to her though...because once you fall in love with her and move in together Larry the local postman will be in your bed getting his 'bare ****' sucked by her whilst you are at work! Ah what a delightful woman, marriage material right there.


    Yeah do it tbh

    maybe being publicly shamed like this will make her think twice about doing it to the next guy

    It's bang out of order

    She can't go to the police for slander or anything as what you wrote is true [assuming you're not a troll]
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    Yeah do it tbh

    maybe being publicly shamed like this will make her think twice about doing it to the next guy

    It's bang out of order

    She can't go to the police for slander or anything as what you wrote is true [assuming you're not a troll]
    She can for harassment though if any of his previous communications have been aggressive or threatening and considering the OPs aggressive posts on here, then its highly unlikely previous communications were calm and reasoned.

    ps Slander is verbal defamation and libel is written.
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    She deceived you for three years. It could have been worse. Imagine you two got married, had a child, it would be much more difficult. I suspect that if you weren't in a financial struggle she would continue exploiting you.
    You are angry, that 's good. Anger is energy. Use this energy in constructive ways. You can use it to motivate you with your studies. You are studying Psychology, right? You can explore the reasons for her behaviour through Psychology and also your part in this. I think you were naive and people are naive for a reason.
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    no what the hell is wrong with you?
    just because you are a jealous ball of rage doesn't mean you need to ruin her life or embarrass her for no reason.
    get over yourself and act like a bloody adult, not a 12yr old.
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    Hey, man. Did you do it? Give us an update.
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    I’m sorry that happened to you ☹️ but I would say don’t, as right now it may look like sweet revenge, in the future it could bite you in the backside really badly. Just move on and be glad that a women like that is out of your life for good 🌸
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    So sorry to hear this, OP

    I can only imagine how you must be feeling, but please do not 'out' her on social media if you haven't already.

    As awful as this situation is for you, escorting isn't illegal and if she's been doing it a while, she may have her reasons (I'd assume financial). If you out her, there is no coming back from that, you don't know what danger that could put her in, how her family would react and other long term repercussions of this.

    I would confront her in person that you know what she's been doing and give her the chance to explain herself.
 
 
 
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