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    My boyfriend and i have been a thing for nearly 4 months, and i haven't spoken to his friends?

    We go to the same sixth form and so i know who they are, but i have never had a conversation with any of them? And recently i discovered that his friends didn't know who i was, which makes it a bit awkward.

    I feel bad because my boyfriend has spoken to and has become very good friends with my own group, which adds to the awkwardness for obvious reasons, as i want to get to know his.

    How can i now introduce myself this far into the relationship but without seeming awkward? In school we keep our relationship on the DL, and i'm not sure how to approach my boyfriend and his friends unless i have a question to ask him? And if i ask him a question, i don't know what i'd ask.

    Please help?!
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    Could you express an interest in them? Ask how x, y z are doing. Perhaps then he'll say something along the lines of: I've been meaning to introduce x to you, a. You should come with us next time we do ς activity.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My boyfriend and i have been a thing for nearly 4 months, and i haven't spoken to his friends?

    We go to the same sixth form and so i know who they are, but i have never had a conversation with any of them? And recently i discovered that his friends didn't know who i was, which makes it a bit awkward.

    I feel bad because my boyfriend has spoken to and has become very good friends with my own group, which adds to the awkwardness for obvious reasons, as i want to get to know his.

    How can i now introduce myself this far into the relationship but without seeming awkward? In school we keep our relationship on the DL, and i'm not sure how to approach my boyfriend and his friends unless i have a question to ask him? And if i ask him a question, i don't know what i'd ask.

    Please help?!
    Talk to him. If you are keeping your relationship quiet then not sure why you would be relevant to them. You are dating him and not them.

    Boy groups are probably a bit different than girls so you may find it awkward.
 
 
 
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