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    I am 22 years old indian girl. I am in my last year as a student before i qualify.
    I have a 'secret' bf. We have been together 6 months.
    My parents don't know about him. The are currently trying to find boys for me which are marriage potential. My mum keeps asking me about random guys which i have never even met and saying would i like them.
    I am getting very frustrated as i haven't even finished my studies yet and they keep talking about guys to marry.
    I want to tell them about my bf soon but atm its not the right time in our relationship.
    What should I do about my parents?
    I have told them i will find my own husband but they just don't get the hint that they are pressurising me. I just want to concentrate on my studies atm.
    Sometimes i feel because in the eldest of three children, they are just excited for me to find somebody, but how can I make them stop putting this pressure on me?

    Thank you.
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    I am 22 years old indian girl. I am in my last year as a student before i qualify.
    I have a 'secret' bf. We have been together 6 months.
    My parents don't know about him. The are currently trying to find boys for me which are marriage potential. My mum keeps asking me about random guys which i have never even met and saying would i like them.
    I am getting very frustrated as i haven't even finished my studies yet and they keep talking about guys to marry.
    I want to tell them about my bf soon but atm its not the right time in our relationship.
    What should I do about my parents?
    I have told them i will find my own husband but they just don't get the hint that they are pressurising me. I just want to concentrate on my studies atm.
    Sometimes i feel because in the eldest of three children, they are just excited for me to find somebody, but how can I make them stop putting this pressure on me?

    Thank you.
    Just tell them they are really distracting you from exams and putting your final qualification at risk. It then depends on how much independence and freedom you have to move out or say no to them.
 
 
 
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