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How can I get this guy to leave my house? I don't want to spend all day with him. watch

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    I met a guy on Grindr last night for a hookup, I'm 17 and he's 19. We woke up about 40 minutes ago and I let him have a shower, now we're having breakfast (he said that he was really hungry so I said he could have breakfast, I wouldn't have offered without him saying anything), now he seems to have the idea that we'll be doing something today.

    I've done the usual things like saying I have a busy day and that I have a lot to do, he hasn't taken the hint and I reallly don't want to spend all day with him. I could just tell him to go just like that, though I'd want to hookup with him again so I don't want to be overly rude. What should I do?
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    Easy, either:

    Text a friend to call you with a fake emergency “I’m so so sorry xxx is having a crisis and I need to go see them so shall we catch up another time?”

    Say your parents are coming round at mid day

    Go out somewhere, say you have plans with someone, walk down the road and then come back when he’s gone

    Just say it outright- “sorry but do you mind leaving soon? I have lots to do today and I need the space”

    If there is anything I despise it is guests out staying their welcome!!!!!!!!
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    (Original post by del1rious)
    Just say it outright- “sorry but do you mind leaving soon? I have lots to do today and I need the space”
    Thanks, if he hasn't gone in about 15 minutes I'll have to say that!
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    You've been social enough with breakfast. Just say your busy today, sorry, and bundle him out the door. You can smooth it by agreeing to meet in the future and then change your mind subsequently.
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    Leave! Even just go to the local shop or whatever. It would be an excuse to lock the door thus understandable to kick out guests.
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    (Original post by sinfonietta)
    Leave! Even just go to the local shop or whatever. It would be an excuse to lock the door thus understandable to kick out guests.
    I agree, say you’re gunna go to the shops and after that you have a busy day scheduled ahead. So he has to leave with you.

    You could say you’re meeting an old friend or need to rush around in town or something.
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    Tell him you love him and want to be with him forever
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