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Having bicurious thoughts

Hi I'm 22 years old and my girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 3.5 years. She is my best friend and I am highly attracted to her both emotionally and physically and we plan to marry once we both get jobs after college. That being said, I feel horrible because I also have these reoccurring thoughts of what it would be like to be with a guy. I wouldn't label myself as bisexual because I have no desire to be in a relationship with a guy, my thoughts are purely sexual..

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Anonymous #2

I was in the same state... and still recurs sometimes. I had a girlfriend but the thought of having sex with another guy never left me. So I satisfied my curiosity. I had a bi-friend and asked if we could make it out... and we did. You probably are curious, as well.