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    So i met this guy on tinder in January and we've been talking since then, we meet each other often and have pretty much bonded since we met, it got to the point where I told him I was a virgin and he was perfectly understanding. He comes from Italy and will be going back in like 3 months but I admit I'm getting very attached, it's crazy because we both just connect on a level you wouldn't expect we would since we met on tinder. Anyway I've always wanted to lose me virginity after marriage and I'm 20 right now, however I'm starting to change my mind. We are just very passionate and close I guess and I know my first time with him would be pretty good, I especially love how he respects me and is so patient with me. And to be honest I'm a little scared because what if I don't feel the same with anyone else like of course I will meet other people but this connection is quite special I'm scared I won't experience it with anyone else, the only thing is though is that he says he wouldn't mind something serious but he just wanted to keep things casual for now this is why I'm confused but I feel like if I'm gonna lose my virginity, now seems to be the perfect time... But I dunno I need some help
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    So i met this guy on tinder in January and we've been talking since then, we meet each other often and have pretty much bonded since we met, it got to the point where I told him I was a virgin and he was perfectly understanding. He comes from Italy and will be going back in like 3 months but I admit I'm getting very attached, it's crazy because we both just connect on a level you wouldn't expect we would since we met on tinder. Anyway I've always wanted to lose me virginity after marriage and I'm 20 right now, however I'm starting to change my mind. We are just very passionate and close I guess and I know my first time with him would be pretty good, I especially love how he respects me and is so patient with me. And to be honest I'm a little scared because what if I don't feel the same with anyone else like of course I will meet other people but this connection is quite special I'm scared I won't experience it with anyone else, the only thing is though is that he says he wouldn't mind something serious but he just wanted to keep things casual for now this is why I'm confused but I feel like if I'm gonna lose my virginity, now seems to be the perfect time... But I dunno I need some help
    He won't be the only guy in the world that will understand you like him. The bottom line is that if you're ready to have sex then have sex. If there's any doubt in your mind about it then you may regret it. Are you okay with things being casual? Some people get very attached to the person they lost their virginity to and knowing that he'll be gone in 3 months may hurt you. As long as you know where you stand with him then there shouldn't be a problem.
 
 
 
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