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Girl really likes me when drunk but acts different sober watch

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    So basically me and this girl have been on and off for 2 years and I no at times that she has loved me. However over the last like 6 months we haven't spoke at all sober mainly because we're both shy I think(both 18 btw). However whenever she's drunk she acts really cute, flirty with me and tells me she likes me etc. Basically anytime she's drunk and I'm there she's with me and if I'm not there 50% of the time she'll text me telling me r to meet her etc and will phone me wanting to talk. All my friends also say she's obsessed with me as she often asks them where I am and she tells them she wants me etc. However when she asks me out drunk and we plan a date she flakes the night before. And I messaged her once sober and she was really blunt she says this is because she's shy and that she feels like i feel sorry for her but I not sure if she actually likes me or just wants attention
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    I think she actually likes you. What she said could be true. Maybe, give another chance?
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    (Original post by neluxsan)
    I think she actually likes you. What she said could be true. Maybe, give another chance?
    Thanks for your opinion bro I think I will but I'm gonna be straight with her next time
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    (Original post by 21bo)
    Thanks for your opinion bro I think I will but I'm gonna be straight with her next time
    That's good, then you will know for sure
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    She likes you, but she’s worried you’ll not like her sober. Try to do an activity when you go out, less awkward silences and it gives you something to talk/be competitive about! Reassure her that you like her and want to get to know her better. She sounds insecure so make sure she knows clearly that you’re into her, that you think shes pretty, that you’re not just messing her about.

    From what you’ve written you’ve got a good chance here, very rare on tsr! :yep:
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    (Original post by cat_mac)
    She likes you, but she’s worried you’ll not like her sober. Try to do an activity when you go out, less awkward silences and it gives you something to talk/be competitive about! Reassure her that you like her and want to get to know her better. She sounds insecure so make sure she knows clearly that you’re into her, that you think shes pretty, that you’re not just messing her about.

    From what you’ve written you’ve got a good chance here, very rare on tsr! :yep:
    Thanks I will try to she knows I love her I'm pretty sure and I want her to no I like her sober but the one time I messaged her sober she was blunt and seemed like she didn't want to speak to me
 
 
 
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