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    Look how the things are going.Before a couple of months i added a girl in fb without knowing her because she was from the same place like me and she goes to university which i go.So, before a week i add here and to instagram!My problem is that before 3 days she started eating on the university restaurant which i eat everyday.So, i want to have her in my life but i dont know how can achieve because she knows who i am from the fb and instagram but not personally.Also i feel so ridiculous that i cant go ask her name,after she knows me and i know her from net...Any advices??
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    (Original post by Panos98)
    Look how the things are going.Before a couple of months i added a girl in fb without knowing her because she was from the same place like me and she goes to university which i go.So, before a week i add here and to instagram!My problem is that before 3 days she started eating on the university restaurant which i eat everyday.So, i want to have her in my life but i dont know how can achieve because she knows who i am from the fb and instagram but not personally.Also i feel so ridiculous that i cant go ask her name,after she knows me and i know her from net...Any advices??
    The fact that you added a random girl doesn't really help your situation. It would be weird if you introduced yourself as the guy who added her randomly. I don't think this will go down well. Did you ever talk on Facebook messenger?
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    The fact that you added a random girl doesn't really help your situation. It would be weird if you introduced yourself as the guy who added her randomly. I don't think this will go down well. Did you ever talk on Facebook messenger?
    No i didn't. I just know her through fb and instagram photos but i want to know her in real life now...
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    Well this could be a bit tough, is she by chance in any of your classes? If so that would make it easier but if not than you could just straight up message her on FB and start a conversation with her. It would be weird for you and her if you did it in person first.
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    No i didn't. I just know her through fb and instagram photos but i want to know her in real life now...
    You'll have to just go up to her and say hey, gotta be confident, ik a guy who did as you did and said 'I think I saw you today' it is just a bit odd messaging for no such reason without meeting
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    You'll have to just go up to her and say hey, gotta be confident, ik a guy who did as you did and said 'I think I saw you today' it is just a bit odd messaging for no such reason without meeting
    One more problem is that when i see her at the university restaurant, she isn't alone. Always with her friends, so it's a bit difficult to me to go there and start a conversion...
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    One more problem is that when i see her at the university restaurant, she isn't alone. Always with her friends, so it's a bit difficult to me to go there and start a conversion...
    Have you spoken much on messenger and insta?
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    Have you spoken much on messenger and insta?
    I did not speak with her neither facebook nor insta
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    (Original post by Panos98)
    I did not speak with her neither facebook nor insta
    Can't really go up to her at this point then, try and meet her at a society or something?
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    Introduce yourself as the stranger who stalked her on FB and added her. Record it so I can see the awkwardness.
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    Text he an say something like hey! I swear I recognise you? Do u go my university?
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    Then she will probs say yeh I do then you say why don’t we meet with a few mates maybe go the bar or sommit we could get to know each other
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    Then u arrange a time maybe say that she seems cool from her fb pictures just text her no harm will happen chill ur overreacting this **** happens all the time dw
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    (Original post by Panos98)
    Look how the things are going.Before a couple of months i added a girl in fb without knowing her because she was from the same place like me and she goes to university which i go.So, before a week i add here and to instagram!My problem is that before 3 days she started eating on the university restaurant which i eat everyday.So, i want to have her in my life but i dont know how can achieve because she knows who i am from the fb and instagram but not personally.Also i feel so ridiculous that i cant go ask her name,after she knows me and i know her from net...Any advices??
    Talk to her on Facebook and asks if she wants to eat with you.
 
 
 
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