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    This guy i'm speaking too is very secretive. He is very reserved and finds it almost impossible to open up to me . He is pushing me away as I feel like I only know the basics about this guy as he has hardly told me about his past. It leaves me asking crazy questions and has me wondering if he is hiding something or if he's just finding it hard to be vulnerable by opening up.
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    Well he obviously has a reason why he's not opening up. It can be tough to crack someone who is very reserved to be honest. It can takes months until he feels like he can trust you enough to open up. Gain his trust and avoid asking him questions about his past, show him you are only focused on his present and that you are genuinely there for him. If he sees that you are just trying to be there for him and he gains that trust, he'll slowly start to open up to you. But you have to be patient with him if you really like him.
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    Very true !
 
 
 
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