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    Long story short a load of people kept getting involved in our relationship and kept saying things and expecting us to be like some of the other couples that were around us. This made everything so complicated becuase everyone else seemed to constantly know more about our relationship than we did so then we were both stressed and confused and hurting each other. We had a conversation and I tried to fix things becuase I still really want to be with him and I do really like him. He was saying he felt the same and even said that he loved me which we have never said before but he couldn’t carry on feeling like he was hurting me. This went on for ages I tried to convince him that he wasn’t hurting me and that I was happy before others got involved. He just kept saying he’s sorry and he thought it was right to end things. I said it wasn’t what I wanted and asked him what he wanted and he said he didn’t want to be in a relationship anymore because of the things that went on and it just stressed him more ontop of things going on in his home life. But then before that he kept saying he still loved me. Does it sound like it’s over for good or could it possibly just be a break ?
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    Long story short a load of people kept getting involved in our relationship and kept saying things and expecting us to be like some of the other couples that were around us. This made everything so complicated becuase everyone else seemed to constantly know more about our relationship than we did so then we were both stressed and confused and hurting each other. We had a conversation and I tried to fix things becuase I still really want to be with him and I do really like him. He was saying he felt the same and even said that he loved me which we have never said before but he couldn’t carry on feeling like he was hurting me. This went on for ages I tried to convince him that he wasn’t hurting me and that I was happy before others got involved. He just kept saying he’s sorry and he thought it was right to end things. I said it wasn’t what I wanted and asked him what he wanted and he said he didn’t want to be in a relationship anymore because of the things that went on and it just stressed him more ontop of things going on in his home life. But then before that he kept saying he still loved me. Does it sound like it’s over for good or could it possibly just be a break ?

    Get your exams done

    Sort yourself out.

    Contact in Summer and see.

    I would say more than likely he doesnt want a relationship as too draining. he might change when it calms, bit I wouldnt put money on it.
 
 
 
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