(Original post by Anonymous)
So long story short, I’ve been with a guy for about 8 months now, but have known him for years
Recently I just feel like there’s no...spark. Don’t get me wrong, I LOVE spending time with him and enjoy his company so much and feel really comfortable with him, but the butterflies and sexual chemistry isn’t there
Is this a sign that I should end it or is this normal?
Butterflies won't always be there even in a really good relationship. It may be that you're out of the "honeymoon period" or just that this is a more comfortable relationship than exciting. That's totally fine.
If you feel like it's not though that's a different matter. Maybe you've drifted apart a bit, maybe you're not the right people for a comfortable relationship, maybe it's the wrong timing, maybe you're more friends than a couple or whatever.
It all depends on you and how you feel. If you feel like things aren't quite right you could have a talk to him. Maybe things would be better if you change them up a bit. Maybe it would be better if you stay just friends or move onto other people. You can have that talk and see what's the right thing for you guys.
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