...someone who has been in a long term (at least 1.5 years) relationship?
Would you be put off by either one?
Been thinking about this because I recently met a guy who is very much my type and I was thinking I might see if I can take this further and do a bit more flirting next time I see him. I don't actually know much about him so I was stalking his facebook (as you do) and saw that he came out of a 4 year relationship about 3 months ago.
It's silly but I feel like I just can't compete with that especially because I've never had a serious long term relationship. The longest has been around 7 months and even that wasn't hugely serious.
So he has spent his late teens with this one girl and they went on numerous holidays, probably know each others families inside out, probably thought they'd get married. And then you have to compete with all of that history.
I think I'd rather date someone with very little experience. But then that might mean they're a bit immature and don't really understand what is appropriate behaviour and how to handle things.