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    Serious question how do I make a guy NOT like me as more than a friend?

    I’m pretty sure he tries to flirt with me daily and it makes me UNCOMFORTABLE. He is a lovely guy, don’t get me wrong, but any feelings I have towards him are STRICTLY and ONLY platonic. I try to avoid him around college and when in class (he sits next to me) I arrive late and leave as early as possible to minimise the time we can talk for. I don’t want to come across harsh but it just makes me uncomfortable when he does things like laugh at things I say when they’re not even funny. I just want to know how I can “put him off me” or make him uninterested?
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    (Original post by Supernova36)
    Fish and chips or sausage and mash ?
    Fish & chips. Sausage and mash is nice, especially on a cold day with a bit of gravy, but fish and chips slathered in burger sauce is a real treat
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    Serious question how do I make a guy NOT like me as more than a friend?

    I’m pretty sure he tries to flirt with me daily and it makes me UNCOMFORTABLE. He is a lovely guy, don’t get me wrong, but any feelings I have towards him are STRICTLY and ONLY platonic. I try to avoid him around college and when in class (he sits next to me) I arrive late and leave as early as possible to minimise the time we can talk for. I don’t want to come across harsh but it just makes me uncomfortable when he does things like laugh at things I say when they’re not even funny. I just want to know how I can “put him off me” or make him uninterested?

    Just flat-out, be honest with him. He seems really into you, so something like burping or smelling infront of him wont do it. Just rip the bandaid off completely.Honestly, its the best thing to do; for his sake. It'll save the poor guy alot of hassle. I know its going to be hard, for both of you, but I guess its the best solution. You could try 'brother-zoning' him or 'friend-zoning' him by telling him how you find another guy in class attractive. But again that might just be make him more determined. Best thing to do is just be honest with him; say it a nice way? Something like ''Im not looking to be in a relationship now, I dont want you thinking im leading you on or something''. Something along those lines? Sorry if I couldnt be much help!
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    why do you flirt with every girl smhh
    and how do you show you like a girl??
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    How many boners do you get in a day?
    1 million
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    (Original post by Taz554:-))
    what do you seriously see in us? What do we do to get your attention?
    If you're physically attractive and you're showing us positive body language, that will catch a guy's attention.

    (Original post by Taz554:-))
    When you leave us on read and air us for hours what does that mean?
    Depends. With me for example, I might leave you on read if I'm busy and I want to reply with something meaningful a bit later, rather than a short and pointless reply. If you just get left on read and never replied back to, though, take that as a hint that he doesn't want to talk to you.

    (Original post by Taz554:-))
    How do you get one of you to like us?
    Show interest in us. Other than that, just be yourself, if you do that and a guy doesn't like you then they're not right for you.


    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Why do guys always hide your feelings? How can I tell how your feeling? Why are you so obsessed with Fortnite and Fifa 18? If a boy says "I love you in a friend way" what does that mean?
    It's just the way a lot of us are raised to be. A lot of us inherit it from our fathers and other men we grew up around and we mimic their behaviours.
    I've literally never played either of those games.
    He sees you as a friend and nothing more.
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    (Original post by Li0n)
    What do you seriously see in us?
    This depends on the person. Some guys are into the bodily shape. Some like guys more specific and like certain features such as eyes or nose etc. Again everyones has their own description of beuty. Im more of a personality type of guy; I like NICE girls. Thats it. For me you've just got to be genuine and have a clean heart. Because I swear thats what reflects on a person. My favourite book quote:
    “If a person has ugly thoughts, it begins to show on the face. And when that person has ugly thoughts every day, every week, every year, the face gets uglier and uglier until you can hardly bear to look at it.

    A person who has good thoughts cannot ever be ugly. You can have a wonky nose and a crooked mouth and a double chin and stick-out teeth, but if you have good thoughts it will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely.” -Roal Dahl

    What do we do to get your attention?
    Sometimes nothing. A guy can be checking you out and would just approach you. But if the guy is anyone like me-then youll have to approach them! Sorry im not shy, but I dont think I could ever make the first proper move. Thinking back to it, I wish I approached 7/10 girls who've tried getting my attention. But yeah, just go up to them and start a conversation. But if your not that confident then just smile at them. Im a sucker for that killer smile! It could be as little as maintaing eye contact; trust me its the little things that count.When you leave us on read and air us for hours what does that mean?
    Guy 1: Doesnt want anything to do with you and is trying to get rid of you.
    Guy 2: Is busy with work, school work, family etc.
    Guy 3: Trying to play it cool but ends up looking douchey instead.
    Guy 4: Is a narcissist that just gets a buzz out of 'playing hard to get'

    How do you get one of you to like us?
    Honestly. Just be you. Be yourself. Genuine. True. Dont pretend to be someone or something else. At the end of the day, if you get a guys number pretending to be someone else and someone you clearly arent and clearly hate to be. Then that guys into THAT person, not you. And its not fair on you and him. Just be yourself.
    What do you count as flirting?
    Uh....trying to be funny? Making jokes. Complimenting the guy. Making cheeky remarks. Maintaing eye contact; biting your lips, friendly touch of the elbow or whatever.

    Hope this helped!







    Thank you so much! This actually gave me some good advice. But to be honest i think i am a pretty ugly person inside out. Like lookwise and personality. People always tell me i am too open or too loud. Like girls always tell me guys want a shy girl and i always get caught out talking to guys and accused of flirting. Like everytime i fancy someone and they found out i always get a reply of "your too ugly" or "she is a ***** i would never go out with her anyways" That is what annoys me the most, the douchey comments that follow when people find out that they are fancied.

    Like i kinda flirt but not in a weird way, in a kinda friendly way. I dont beg it, i kinda cant get near guys anyways. I dont have any good features about me. I never get fancied and even when i do it is dismissed as a rumour like a day later?! Like my friends always go your beggin it when they see me talking to a boy and they and quiet and they always say he doesnt care about what i have to say when actually behind their back he opens up to me and actually talking to me and apparently i am begging it? Being who i really am is tough cuz it aint attractive and it isnt gonna take me anywhere with a guy anyways. I dont usually get aired, but my friends do and rant about it AFTERWARDS. like seriously i aint that bad but ma looks and everything downgrade the whole ME!
    Getting guys attention to me is like a mystery, it is so hardddddd. Like you start a convo, finish glance to see if they are looking and... NADA. I am kinda curvy if i do say so maself but the face just yuckifies it if that even a word. And if i break out a smile the only thing you see are big chapped lips, curled up eyes and some train tracks shining at you.... Im pretty hopeless tbh
    sorry for the para just needed to let go ahah xx
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    (Original post by Supernova36)
    Fish and chips or sausage and mash ?
    Fish and chips obviously?????????
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    (Original post by YouAreAYute)
    why do you flirt with every girl smhh
    and how do you show you like a girl??
    I'm a flirty person, most of the time it's just banter. Nothing really meant by it. I often flirt with girls I'm not even physically attracted to.
    Just tell her I like her. I also stop flirting with other girls :lol:
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    Why do so many of you like sending **** pics/videos or are just in general obsessed with your ****, doesn't really do anything for anyone.
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    (Original post by It's****ingWOODY)
    Fish & chips. Sausage and mash is nice, especially on a cold day with a bit of gravy, but fish and chips slathered in burger sauce is a real treat
    Burger sauce :dontknow:
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    (Original post by Supernova36)
    Burger sauce :dontknow:
    Els, I tells you, I LOVE burger sauce :coma: What would be your choice of condiment on chish and fips?
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    (Original post by Boss_Rhythm)
    We hide our feelings because that's what girls seem to like, i mean they don't want some emotional bfs
    Fifa is actually getting dead now unless we play with friends, and fortnite is fun and somewhat innovative so yhhh

    It means he wants to stay friends with you, as in he doesn't want a relationship. Basically you are getting friendzoned
    OR, he isn't sure if you will like him back so he is trying to keep it friendly - but that's unlikely
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    Fish and chips... but instead of fish I'll have pizza

    I don't like sausage and mash at all, dk why
    (Original post by Boss_Rhythm)
    Yes, there are some guys who will genuinely not give a s*** about your looks.
    But personally idc about anything except the colour of your eyes

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    but im an anomally so yh...

    Ehfbwisb......your profile indicates that you are of the female variety but here you are, giving replies as if you are a male?

    Please relieve me of this confusion. Arigatou Gozaimasu.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    How many boners do you get in a day?
    Depends usually, but one in the morning maybe a random one during the day, sometimes get them in lessons at school and it’s super awkward and there’s literally nothing you can do
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    (Original post by Taz554:-))
    Thank you so much! This actually gave me some good advice. But to be honest i think i am a pretty ugly person inside out. Like lookwise and personality. People always tell me i am too open or too loud. Like girls always tell me guys want a shy girl and i always get caught out talking to guys and accused of flirting. Like everytime i fancy someone and they found out i always get a reply of "your too ugly" or "she is a ***** i would never go out with her anyways" That is what annoys me the most, the douchey comments that follow when people find out that they are fancied.

    Like i kinda flirt but not in a weird way, in a kinda friendly way. I dont beg it, i kinda cant get near guys anyways. I dont have any good features about me. I never get fancied and even when i do it is dismissed as a rumour like a day later?! Like my friends always go your beggin it when they see me talking to a boy and they and quiet and they always say he doesnt care about what i have to say when actually behind their back he opens up to me and actually talking to me and apparently i am begging it? Being who i really am is tough cuz it aint attractive and it isnt gonna take me anywhere with a guy anyways. I dont usually get aired, but my friends do and rant about it AFTERWARDS. like seriously i aint that bad but ma looks and everything downgrade the whole ME!
    Getting guys attention to me is like a mystery, it is so hardddddd. Like you start a convo, finish glance to see if they are looking and... NADA. I am kinda curvy if i do say so maself but the face just yuckifies it if that even a word. And if i break out a smile the only thing you see are big chapped lips, curled up eyes and some train tracks shining at you.... Im pretty hopeless tbh
    sorry for the para just needed to let go ahah xx
    Haha-you can vent all you want! And I see what you mean. Your not an ugly person. Thats just how your personality is; your a loud extroverted person. Its just who you are and for some it may come out as flirting buts its just you. I guess you can try a different aproach, try being more calmer and talk less. Try listening more and give shorter replies. Leave the guy with some suspense! Dont say the first thing that comes in your mind; I guess talking to much mayannoy a guy and you may come out as a little intimidating. Ignore your friends, they might be jealous or just have a narrow mindset. And with regards to those douchey comments your crushes make? Screw them. Theyre not worth your time. Its good you realised it sooner rather than later.
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    (Original post by It's****ingWOODY)
    Els, I tells you, I LOVE burger sauce :coma: WHat would be your choice of condiment on chish and fips?
    Condiment on fish and chips what :laugh:
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    (Original post by Supernova36)
    Condiment on fish and chips what :laugh:
    Oh God, you don't eat chips with no sauce do you :zomg:
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    (Original post by It's****ingWOODY)
    Oh God, you don't eat chips with no sauce do you :zomg:
    Unless it’s chips and gravy , no ! I don’t put sauce with fish and chips , if it’s fries I may have ketchup but burger sauce that is blasphemous Hun xox
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    (Original post by Li0n)
    Haha-you can vent all you want! And I see what you mean. Your not an ugly person. Thats just how your personality is; your a loud extroverted person. Its just who you are and for some it may come out as flirting buts its just you. I guess you can try a different aproach, try being more calmer and talk less. Try listening more and give shorter replies. Leave the guy with some suspense! Dont say the first thing that comes in your mind; I guess talking to much mayannoy a guy and you may come out as a little intimidating. Ignore your friends, they might be jealous or just have a narrow mindset. And with regards to those douchey comments your crushes make? Screw them. Theyre not worth your time. Its good you realised it sooner rather than later.
    I'll try being less out there as i am now because that just comes back to wack me in the face. Leaving them with suspense will make the "flirting" healthier i suppose I sometimes to myself come across as intimidating, need to cut that out for good coz that would be the biggest turn off. My friends LURVV cating me out so that it wat they are like cant change them can i?
 
 
 
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