So, in February this year, we had planned to go to Dublin for the weekend, but I had to cancel because I couldnt afford it. Now they are planning on going to Zante, originally in September for 4 nights which was fine with me. But now for some reason the plans are Zante in July for 7 nights. I know I cant afford to go in July as I have things to pay in June, also I cant afford 7 nights, plus I dont really want to go for 7 nights as I feel that's way too long.
How do I tell them without them thinking I never want to go anywhere with them? Also just a sidenote, I do go on nights out with them, its not as if I never do anything with them, it's just going away is the problem as right now I cant afford it like I said.
Also I know they won't "hate" me for not going, I just dont want this whole "cant afford it" thing to sound like an excuse.