I'm a 24 year old female - never had a boyfriend

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Is it normal? Socially acceptable? I want to lie to people saying I at least had 1 because they tend to assume I'm a lying attention seeker. What would you guys do? It makes me realise how weird I am and the thing is, I don't mind being like this tbh. It's just about how people perceive me.
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Is it normal? Socially acceptable? I want to lie to people saying I at least had 1 because they tend to assume I'm a lying attention seeker. What would you guys do? It makes me realise how weird I am and the thing is, I don't mind being like this tbh. It's just about how people perceive me.
I can assure you most won't care either way
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I think it's normal and i wouldn't know why anyone would find it weird. Lying about it doesn't make it better. Don't worry about it.
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Yeah if people are judging you it's probably because they're the type of person to judge everyone on everything just to feel better about themselves
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Is it normal? Socially acceptable? I want to lie to people saying I at least had 1 because they tend to assume I'm a lying attention seeker. What would you guys do? It makes me realise how weird I am and the thing is, I don't mind being like this tbh. It's just about how people perceive me.
Nobody elses business, nobody cares and you can brush them off easily. Plenty of time for you to meet the right person.
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(Original post by Kyber Ninja)
I can assure you most won't care either way
Well, this one guy got pretty mad at me for "lying" and said "ugh all girls say that". Tbh, I've never heard of another girl saying that - not when they're 24 lol.
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Nobody elses business, nobody cares and you can brush them off easily. Plenty of time for you to meet the right person.
I hope so because it's just sad that I have to lie to seem like I am not a liar. Maybe that guy who thought I was lying is making me feel like this but the problem is I realised that other people might also think I'm a liar but they don't tell me
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I think it's normal and i wouldn't know why anyone would find it weird. Lying about it doesn't make it better. Don't worry about it.
but if i lie it will make me less self conscious and more comfortable because i feel like they think i'm a liar
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I’m 24 and the same!

Like you I’m not really bothered about relationships burn you so wonder what people think. But I always think that if someone was to judge you based on that alone, or think you are a liar, are they worth your time?
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Well, this one guy got pretty mad at me for "lying" and said "ugh all girls say that". Tbh, I've never heard of another girl saying that - not when they're 24 lol.
There will always be delusional people, no matter what the topic

I would just ignore him.
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I hope so because it's just sad that I have to lie to seem like I am not a liar. Maybe that guy who thought I was lying is making me feel like this but the problem is I realised that other people might also think I'm a liar but they don't tell me
Work on self confidence an self esteem, then you wont care. Know your own value and dont be affected by the opinion of those who do not matter.
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Girl live your life you don’t need a man and there’s no point lying about it to be honest is it going to make any difference? No it won’t it’s better if your honest don’t you think it would make them feel special to be your first boyfriend? Or maybe it might be all new to the male too
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Id assume less common for women? but It happens.
Iv always been single at 25.
It shouldn't be something to be ashamed of but I know it can feel that way when you compare your self to a group of your friends. Most of my friends and family are more successful than me in love and life.
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Is it normal? Socially acceptable? I want to lie to people saying I at least had 1 because they tend to assume I'm a lying attention seeker. What would you guys do? It makes me realise how weird I am and the thing is, I don't mind being like this tbh. It's just about how people perceive me.
im no gd with advice but when it comes to getting a boyfriend you dont need to mention anything about past relationships, every guy i knw, me included hate hearing about their gf's past bf's, when your in a relationship the only thing that matters is you 2 not any1 from the past
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I was straight ,was married with women , i loved a lot the girl but he leave me for another ricci man an leave me bad love
My mind is chances to think to mens
From 4 years i love a lot to find special man for my life ,because i fell diferent happy with man
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It depends on the social circle you're in. There are people who will find it weird and will call you a liar, but you should ditch them ASAP.

As for me, the lack of experience only makes you cuter and more fragile and i would want to treat you even better than i would. I'm fairly certain that when you find a great guy, he won't care at all. I know plenty of girls around 23 who never had a boyfriend and they're cute as hell, it just wasn't their priority so to speak.
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Is it normal? Socially acceptable? I want to lie to people saying I at least had 1 because they tend to assume I'm a lying attention seeker. What would you guys do? It makes me realise how weird I am and the thing is, I don't mind being like this tbh. It's just about how people perceive me.
100% socially acceptable. Kind of attractive if you ask me haha if I found you physically attractive I'd kind of like that I could be your first boyfriend because it means we can explore everything together
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You shouldn't care if it's socially acceptable, you are still young and there's no timeline you need to follow to be socially acceptable. People pressure others to do things when they should be done but that is not the case for everyone. You don't need to be at a certain stage in your life at an exact age. The right person will come along and it's better to find your significant other when you're more mature and stable. So don't fret and enjoy your life
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