Ok, I didn't really express myself properly. I don't intend to "shove it in their faces", die my sheets pink or scream, and I don't think people would point me out as obviously gay. At the same time though, I'm not blokey. At all. Not that I'm really girly either - I just fit in so much better in mixed groups. What I'm concerned about isn't so much being rejected for being gay but being rejected for not being really really macho. What is the group dynamic usually like? Do people of both sexes go out etc together? Thanks for anything you can tell me.