Would you raise your children gender neutral ?

For a guy that claims not to “even give a solitary f” about what I have to say ....you sure as hell seem obssessed with my comments. What’s the count so far? Five replies to my comments in the past couple of days?

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What do you guys think ?

I think i will raise my kid whatever gender he assigned by birth, until he/she gives me further evidence to recognize other avenues they independently CHOOSE to explore.

No.

Doesn’t mean I’d raise my kids being told “YOURE A GIRL YOU MUST LIKE PRINCESSES AND WEAR PINK”

I’d raise my children as they are, and they’d have their own independence later in life (or earlier) if they decided to explore another gender.

Just wana say i like your username. Welsh meaning nostalgia is it? x

Exactly...because loving someone is letting them follow their feelings. If your child wants to take drugs you have got to support them in doing that....why? because feelings. If your child feels like raping other children...you have got to support and encourage those feelings of theirs. You have got to let them, embrace their sexuality because loving your children is not guiding them away from doing wrong things. No, It’s all about letting them follow their feelings and allowing them to embrace their sexuality. If they turn out pedophiles so be it. If they turn out incestophiles and feel a sexual attaraction towards their siblings or you as their parents then you have to encourage this behaviour and let them embrace it!

Liberalism and feminism has turned people into brainless zombies.....

In answer to your question Reality, no. I will not raise my children “gender neutral”. I will raise them by the gender that conforms with their biology. I will raise them sane.

Thanks!
Hiraeth cannot be translated as it's a set phrase just for welsh. I think directly translated it probably means "nostalgia" or "homesickness"but back in my mums side, it means to "long for a place (or something) that you can't turn to or never was"

Most translations say it's longing for a home that was never there, however my mums side used it for other things such as relationships or casual stuff like going to local restaurant.

I love yours also ; it fit wells with some of the suggestions some people say on TSR

This is the discussion being had next to me between some guys at curry lounge...


What do you guys think ?

I think i will raise my kid whatever gender he assigned by birth, until he/she gives me further evidence to recognize other avenues they independently CHOOSE to explore.

Ohhh I see. So if I have hiraeth for Nandos... and you're actually Welsh and can speak Welsh? if so that's wicked because it seems as if a lotta Welshies are actually English...

yh in real life I get told I'm bang outta order a lot haha. And now on here as well.

This is the discussion being had next to me between some guys at curry lounge...

What do you guys think ?

I think i will raise my kid whatever gender he assigned by birth, until he/she gives me further evidence to recognize other avenues they independently CHOOSE to explore.

This is the discussion being had next to me between some guys at curry lounge...


What do you guys think ?

I think i will raise my kid whatever gender he assigned by birth, until he/she gives me further evidence to recognize other avenues they independently CHOOSE to explore.

Definitely not; I will raise them according to their personality and their interests. If they like pink things and princesses, then they can have those things, or if they like Lego and building forts then they can do that too. Children have their own interests and I hate it when parents superimpose their ideals onto children.

I was a tomboy growing up and you would have been hard pressed to get me into a dress! I'm glad I was able to freely explore my own interests and wear whatever I wanted because now I get to find out about the things I rejected as a child and find I actually quite like them; but only because I chose to go down that avenue instead of it being forced on me.

This is the discussion being had next to me between some guys at curry lounge...


What do you guys think ?

I think i will raise my kid whatever gender he assigned by birth, until he/she gives me further evidence to recognize other avenues they independently CHOOSE to explore.

arguments could be made that you shouldnt force or define them by gender... so they can pick their sexuality without influence lol.

This is what my computer science teacher did. He's really hot and muscly, but I think he's socially awkward; the way he speaks is just awful

Anyways, it was one of the rare times he actually spoke, and spoke about his life which was quite shocking, and it turns out he adopted a daughter and tried to raise her gender neutral; plain clothes, no tv (I think they had free view but his kid spent more time drawing), probably just YouTube egg opening videos as all kids watch. However eventually she began to do "stereotypical" girly things (such as playing that Stacey hand clap game and skipping-yes, they still exist I didn't even know! I wonder if the kids nowadays know what hopscotch is....)

Anyways he came to the conclusion that it was probably influence from TV, other girls and society as a whole. One thing to note that at the time I didn't realise how ****ed up it was experimenting on an adopted daughter like that but whatever. Wow anyways, personally no; I'd let my daughter embrace whatever Gender she wants to, let her be swayed by whatever appeals to her. However if dressing up with pink clothes and playing in the dolls house doesn't appeal to her, and say idk she wants to play football or wrestling, i'd let her do hat she wants. I will neither force her to wear pink clothes nor will I force her to wear neutral clothes. Whatever my princess wants .Let her embrace her gender, her sexuality and her feelings, because who am I to dictate the life of a possible (and definitely awesome as i'm the handsome father) future star.