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    I've just been gaslighted. My abusive former friend called me delusional, repeatedly, hurling insults such as "crazy", "mentally ill", "irrational"

    I mean, okay, he has a point on the mentally ill one, if he had been meaning THE SAME THING as me

    The one word that really hit hard was delusional. As soon as that appeared on snapchat, I was in tears. I knew it was emotional abuse, and it got to the point where I blocked him while he was in the middle of typing because I couldn't sit and hear any more.

    While I am typing through tears, I feel proud of myself for blocking him. I do feel I could have done that a week ago though, I just felt trapped by him.

    I'm free, and I feel the effects of dropping him. It feels good.

    Plus, suddenly my head fog is lifting a little, this can only mean good things in terms of my depression Still shaken by it regardless
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    You should probably invest in a diary or make a blog because you’ve left the actual question part 👍🏽
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    Sorry to hear that :console: He sounds like a d***! Glad you blocked him, you dodged a bullet. The guy sounds very toxic...And you’re not delusional or crazy, he’s talking so much bs. Gosh some people are ignorant :rolleyes:
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    (Original post by shameful_burrito)
    Sorry to hear that :console: He sounds like a d***! Glad you blocked him, you dodged a bullet. The guy sounds very toxic...And you’re not delusional or crazy, he’s talking so much bs. Gosh some people are ignorant :rolleyes:
    :hugs:you're such a great friend burrito <3 thank you
    I think he hated how popular I was and jealous of me being friends with you tbh, this is Andyboi we're talking about. He hated that I came back on here after he started being an a** and didn't like me talking about how happy I was with my friends on my course and with my friends on here. But I didn't, and still don't care. I love burrito, and all of my other friends, because they are the positive people I need to surround myself with.

    You made my day bringing shameful_burrito back
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    Just why are girls so eager to date? But more importantly how come I never see it happening?
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    Blocking and making the clean break is the best thing you could do. Got to look after #1 first.
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    have you seen your GP about your MH?
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    Wow, People these days

    On a serious note, glad you ditched him, don't even know the guy and he sounds like an utter ....

    I know what it's like to be depressed and I had to do the same thing, to a lot of people I just ended up with so many toxic people in my life that were dragging me down all the time.

    You're better off without them
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    (Original post by getmeoffmyphone2)
    :hugs:you're such a great friend burrito <3 thank you
    I think he hated how popular I was and jealous of me being friends with you tbh, this is Andyboi we're talking about. He hated that I came back on here after he started being an a** and didn't like me talking about how happy I was with my friends on my course and with my friends on here. But I didn't, and still don't care. I love burrito, and all of my other friends, because they are the positive people I need to surround myself with.

    You made my day bringing shameful_burrito back
    Whatttt :eek4: Andyboi seemed so nice...guess not. Anyways you did the right thing. Positive vibes only:rock:
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    (Original post by shameful_burrito)
    Whatttt :eek4: Andyboi seemed so nice...guess not. Anyways you did the right thing. Positive vibes only:rock:
    :laugh: that first emoji though, and yeah, honestly deep down he still loved me, he just refused to admit it and treated me like sh** instead. That's one way to hide your feelings I guess :rofl: what an a** lmao, i told him straight up, you can't treat me like this, and he went mad, made me laugh tbh

    Can I just say, I am not feeling down right now, which is a small miracle.

    All hail the burrito :lovehug:
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    (Original post by getmeoffmyphone2)
    :laugh: that first emoji though, and yeah, honestly deep down he still loved me, he just refused to admit it and treated me like sh** instead. That's one way to hide your feelings I guess :rofl: what an a** lmao, i told him straight up, you can't treat me like this, and he went mad, made me laugh tbh

    Can I just say, I am not feeling down right now, which is a small miracle.

    All hail the burrito :lovehug:
    Ngl I’m shook, didn’t expect you to say it was Andy:laugh: He seemed like one of those really chill guys who never gets mad at people and apologises even if he accidently touched your phone case haha. It’s good that you’re feeling better. You deserve to feel awesome :cool:

    Heil! :fuhrer:

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    JOKING with the Heil part:rofl:
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    (Original post by shameful_burrito)
    Ngl I’m shook, didn’t expect you to say it was Andy:laugh: He seemed like one of those really chill guys who never gets mad at people and apologises even if he accidently touched your phone case haha. It’s good that you’re feeling better. You deserve to feel awesome :cool:

    Heil! :fuhrer:

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    JOKING with the Heil part:rofl:

    Seems like he's one of those 'nice lads' that wears a fedora and a waistcoat and thinks they are entitled.
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    (Original post by gjd800)
    Seems like he's one of those 'nice lads' that wears a fedora and a waistcoat and thinks they are entitled.
    Dodo0099 only wears adidas, real man wears adidas opa
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    (Original post by gjd800)
    Seems like he's one of those 'nice lads' that wears a fedora and a waistcoat and thinks they are entitled.
    Damn made me laugh out loud:rofl: It’s funny cause in his pic here he had a waistcoat. I’m sure he must have a nice fedora collection too, but he’s still missing the neckbeard to complete the look M’Lord!
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    (Original post by Dodo0099)
    Dodo0099 only wears adidas, real man wears adidas opa
    Seen.
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    (Original post by shameful_burrito)
    Ngl I’m shook, didn’t expect you to say it was Andy:laugh: He seemed like one of those really chill guys who never gets mad at people and apologises even if he accidently touched your phone case haha. It’s good that you’re feeling better. You deserve to feel awesome :cool:

    Heil! :fuhrer:

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    JOKING with the Heil part:rofl:

    :rofl: that was hilarious, yeah he has this warped idea that I'm a delusional weirdo and that the girl he left me for is perfect. And then he admitted yesterday that there's probably a reason she refuses to date anyone. What an idiot. Everyone has one struggle or another

    but enough about him, you're the best <3
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    Dodo0099 only wears adidas, real man wears adidas opa
    True Slav blood running through your cheeki breeki veins sir.
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    (Original post by getmeoffmyphone2)
    :rofl: that was hilarious, yeah he has this warped idea that I'm a delusional weirdo and that the girl he left me for is perfect. And then he admitted yesterday that there's probably a reason she refuses to date anyone. What an idiot. Everyone has one struggle or another

    but enough about him, you're the best <3
    But you are perfect?
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    (Original post by shameful_burrito)
    Damn made me laugh out loud:rofl: It’s funny cause in his pic here he had a waistcoat. I’m sure he must have a nice fedora collection too, but he’s still missing the neckbeard to complete the look M’Lord!
    Haha oh did he?! Well, the evidence is there!
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    True Slav blood running through your cheeki breeki veins sir.
    Da there is
 
 
 
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