hello guys im new here and i have a little problem , im sorry for the long post
i met this girl that i like we started seeing eachother, texting alot everything is fine
i went to her place twice nothing happened i was massaging her back from under her shirt while she was on top of me while kissing her neck , when things got a little more physical than just touching she stopped me , i tried putting my hands in her panties but she took my hand away twice and said no , when i slept at her place she turned her back on me and said good night and i grabbed her from behind trying to escalate things a little but she didnt respond at all , i mean she would let me touch her until some point and thats it she wouldnt respond with a little touching herself when i tried to kiss her she didnt respond to the kiss she held her lips tense
thing is she also hangs out with another guy from our group of friends Alex i asked her about him she said that they are just friends and i shouldnt be jealous
whenever we hang out she notices guys checking her out alot , i dont see it to be honest , for example we were at a car wash and the guy with the car behind us told her that her front tier need more air which was true and she was like " did you see how he looked at me ? if we were staying any longer he would have offered to solve it himself " stuff like this
i was at her place once and she was texting with alex and i told her whats up with that and she told me that im too jealous like wtf? and she started ignoring his texts but he started calling her , she rejected 2 of his calls at the 3rd i told her to talk to him because he is starting to annoy me and she went to the bathroom to talk to him .
All my friend sayd that i should have just left when that happened and that she is nothing more than an attention ***** and that she is just teasing me and Alex . One of my friends even told me "You can try to be with her but you wont have sex with her she will let you touch her a little she will tease you but thats it nothing more " and that is exactly what happened 2 times in a row . I asked him how did he knew and he didnt wanna say im guessing he tried aswell Its funny cuz she even sent me a meme once that sayd "Me in a relationship : I need attention"
and the worst part is that i found out that she is in a long distance relationship . They have been toghether for 5 years now and her boyfriend has been out of town for almost 1 year and he might stay there for another year in worst case scenario . She even told him through text that she loves him while she was with me . But she said that she might break up with him because they dont get along anymore
I asked a friend for advice because it felt kinda weird to pursue a girl thats in a relationship even if she want to break up with her boyfriend and she got upset told me that she didnt wanna talk to me anymore but ofc she started initiating again sending me pictures and stuff
should i continue to hang out with her or should i just give up ? i want a serious relationship with her not just sex